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TruthBearer

Re: Pastor-slick with the texts
« Reply #40 on: September 25, 2014, 05:00:13 PM »
Well said, TruthBearer.

ole Jimbo always said let time go by and we will see where your kids are and where mine are (or something like that).

We see where his kids are now.

I will give Jimmy Boy credit for one thing: Ever since his son Paul had to leave the mission field years ago for doing the dirty with all those women over there JAV has never used that line.  Now, with Tommy Boy adding to his shame and making a mockery of his words, he probably will never say them again.

Yes I agree, I doubt that anyone will hear that phrase again from ole Jimbo. The only decent son he has is not really his and doesn't associate with him either.

I Know

Re: Pastor-slick with the texts
« Reply #41 on: December 05, 2014, 05:39:53 PM »
Jim, Tom and Paul are sexual predators.  The apples usually do not fall far from the tree.  ANYONE who's read these texts and doesn't quickly see that Tom was preying on this young lady is WILLFULLY IGNORANT or retarded, and will answer to a holy God for not doing the right and Godly thing, which would be to remove the wolf in sheep's clothing. 

Of course Melissa knows that her husband IS an adulterous scumbag.  She's obviously insecure or simply is willing to live in misery, distrusting her husband for the sake of her children. 

I am going to seriously start praying that either the WILLFULLY IGNORANT or retarded men in authority positions left there will repent of their inaction and support of a sexual predator and remove the pervert, or that God Himself will shut the compound down stat!  How all others who are not on staff at the compound can continue to sit in those chairs or send their children there to college after knowing about this, is beyond my imagination.  Shame on you for not protecting your children and for supporting a regime that allows for a sexual predator to prey upon your children (little girls only, I'm assuming.)!

I Know

Re: Pastor-slick with the texts
« Reply #42 on: December 05, 2014, 05:45:43 PM »
TOM VINEYARD IS A GROOMER.  From outofthefog.net:

Adult grooming is correspondent to child grooming and applies to any situation where an adult is primed to allow him or herself to be exploited or abused. While it is a common assumption that grooming is only practiced on the very young, identical emotional and psychological processes are commonly used to abuse or exploit adults the elderly, and those with compromised mental facilities.

An predator will identify and engage a victim and work to gain the target’s trust, break down defenses, and manipulate the victim until they get whatever it is they are after. Overt attention, verbal seduction (flattery / ego stroking), recruitment, physical isolation, charm, gift-giving, normalizing, gaslighting, secrecy, and threats are all hallmarks of grooming.

Abusers who groom their victims often claim to have a special connection with the abused. The so-   called connection might be emotional, intellectual, sexual, spiritual, or all of the above. This is often backed up by the predator echoing back part of the target's own background or story, altered to fit the groomer’s back-story, in order to confirm the connection.

In order to abuse or exploit another person without fear of discovery, a sexual predator or con artist will frequently condition their intended victim to keep secrets for them. When building this bond of trust, an abuser may share seemingly personal or private information, and then swear the victim to secrecy. The victim is made to believe that they are being trusted with something of value, before being asked to share something of value with his/her abuser.

Abusers use shared secrets to bind their victims to them. By degrees, the target is gradually lured in to revealing private information, giving up money, property or sexual favors, or permitting /engaging in inappropriate, unsafe, or illegal behaviors. • The victim is often drawn in to being a "co-conspirator” (also known as forced teaming) with his or her abuser.

Eventually, the bond of secrecy is nearly always reinforced with threats, shaming and guilt to keep the victim silent about his or her shared crimes or misdeeds.

Walt

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Re: Pastor-slick with the texts
« Reply #43 on: December 05, 2014, 06:25:15 PM »
Jim, Tom and Paul are sexual predators.  The apples usually do not fall far from the tree.  ANYONE who's read these texts and doesn't quickly see that Tom was preying on this young lady is WILLFULLY IGNORANT or retarded, and will answer to a holy God for not doing the right and Godly thing, which would be to remove the wolf in sheep's clothing. 

Of course Melissa knows that her husband IS an adulterous scumbag.  She's obviously insecure or simply is willing to live in misery, distrusting her husband for the sake of her children. 

... and you know what Melissa knows... how?

Friendly tip: this kind of post, and the other one of "anyone who disagrees with what I've said is retarded" is not going to win you a lot of friends and influence.

I Know

Re: Pastor-slick with the texts
« Reply #44 on: December 11, 2014, 02:45:41 PM »
Jim, Tom and Paul are sexual predators.  The apples usually do not fall far from the tree.  ANYONE who's read these texts and doesn't quickly see that Tom was preying on this young lady is WILLFULLY IGNORANT or retarded, and will answer to a holy God for not doing the right and Godly thing, which would be to remove the wolf in sheep's clothing. 

Of course Melissa knows that her husband IS an adulterous scumbag.  She's obviously insecure or simply is willing to live in misery, distrusting her husband for the sake of her children. 

... and you know what Melissa knows... how?

Friendly tip: this kind of post, and the other one of "anyone who disagrees with what I've said is retarded" is not going to win you a lot of friends and influence.

WALT:  NEWSFLASH:  I'm not here to win friends but I sure do hope to influence people, anyone who is still associated with the perverts who've reigned at WHBC for far too long.  Tom Vineyard said his wife has read his texts, therefore she knows that her husband is an adulterous scumbag.  Is that not easy to comprehend? 

JustABigKid

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Re: Pastor-slick with the texts
« Reply #45 on: December 11, 2014, 04:58:32 PM »
Jim, Tom and Paul are sexual predators.  The apples usually do not fall far from the tree.  ANYONE who's read these texts and doesn't quickly see that Tom was preying on this young lady is WILLFULLY IGNORANT or retarded, and will answer to a holy God for not doing the right and Godly thing, which would be to remove the wolf in sheep's clothing. 

Of course Melissa knows that her husband IS an adulterous scumbag.  She's obviously insecure or simply is willing to live in misery, distrusting her husband for the sake of her children. 

... and you know what Melissa knows... how?

Friendly tip: this kind of post, and the other one of "anyone who disagrees with what I've said is retarded" is not going to win you a lot of friends and influence.

WALT:  NEWSFLASH:  I'm not here to win friends but I sure do hope to influence people, anyone who is still associated with the perverts who've reigned at WHBC for far too long.  Tom Vineyard said his wife has read his texts, therefore she knows that her husband is an adulterous scumbag.  Is that not easy to comprehend?

Tom has said a lot of things doesn't mean they are true. Example: He said there was 1 text but as you can see here there were many more. He said it was a misunderstanding but obviously it wasn't. So to question as to what Melissa does or doesn't know is pretty valid. We could assume she does but it would only be speculation.

Also if you want people to believe what you say and be influenced a softer approach would help. Too many on here have been hurt for too long with the kind of attitude displayed in some of your post already.
Multitudes, Multitudes in the valley of decision.

Saved by Grace

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Re: Pastor-slick with the texts
« Reply #46 on: September 04, 2019, 01:03:03 PM »
Well said, TruthBearer.

ole Jimbo always said let time go by and we will see where your kids are and where mine are (or something like that).

We see where his kids are now.

I will give Jimmy Boy credit for one thing: Ever since his son Paul had to leave the mission field years ago for doing the dirty with all those women over there JAV has never used that line.  Now, with Tommy Boy adding to his shame and making a mockery of his words, he probably will never say them again.

Yes I agree, I doubt that anyone will hear that phrase again from ole Jimbo. The only decent son he has is not really his and doesn't associate with him either.

I just saw this and am wondering if you are impying Jim is not Jons father?