Circle of Hope girls school

Yes, I don't fault her for advocacy for the abused, even fiercely carried out, but jus tryin' to keep it real.😉

And her unapologetic maligning of Marine was completely uncalled for, which I won't forget.
She really had it out for him for a good long while! I was surprised that he didn't slap her with a slander suit...but, that's just not his style.
 
ALAYMAN, you are right - Bassenco went too far (on the article you posted) with her lambasting of every IFB pastor. I guess according to her reasoning, it could be said that every pastor in Bassenco's Presbyterian denomination is to blame for the antics and shenanigans of Tullian Tchividjian -it's the system, right? Also, Bassenco may have hurt her own credibility by her promotion of beer and astrology. I suppose that when people see injustice committed in the name of religion, there is a tendency to go overboard with their overzealous reaction, and that's not good. Nevertheless, I still admire Bassenco's stand against abusive preachers - someone had to speak up, when everyone else was in "deny, deny, deny" mode.
 
ALAYMAN, you are right - Bassenco went too far (on the article you posted) with her lambasting of every IFB pastor. I guess according to her reasoning, it could be said that every pastor in Bassenco's Presbyterian denomination is to blame for the antics and shenanigans of Tullian Tchividjian -it's the system, right? Also, Bassenco may have hurt her own credibility by her promotion of beer and astrology. I suppose that when people see injustice committed in the name of religion, there is a tendency to go overboard with their overzealous reaction, and that's not good. Nevertheless, I still admire Bassenco's stand against abusive preachers - someone had to speak up, when everyone else was in "deny, deny, deny" mode.
I can back some of what she used to put in print....I know that in the first Bible college I attended (church-run) the President of the fellowship and of the college, and the pastor of the host church was believed to be having an affair with a first-year student. He resigned during my first year there because of his impending divorce. His wife had filed for divorce before the school year started, but the church/college didn't let anyone know. If I had known, I wouldn't have gone to school there at all. Several years later, the current pastor had his son as his youth pastor, and the son was arrested for the grooming and sexual assault of a teen boy over a period of several years. He's serving time in prison for this, and his father's church has suffered a setback that I doubt the church will fully recover from.
With all that said, my wife and I have attended several churches where the pastor, assistant pastor, or youth pastor have been involved with underaged girls and boys for sexual gratification. It's been hushed up and these people moved on to other churches or ministries in many cases, but someone always ends up finding out who and what went on....wish this kind of nonsense would stop in our churches!
 
ALAYMAN, you are right - Bassenco went too far (on the article you posted) with her lambasting of every IFB pastor. I guess according to her reasoning, it could be said that every pastor in Bassenco's Presbyterian denomination is to blame for the antics and shenanigans of Tullian Tchividjian -it's the system, right? Also, Bassenco may have hurt her own credibility by her promotion of beer and astrology. I suppose that when people see injustice committed in the name of religion, there is a tendency to go overboard with their overzealous reaction, and that's not good. Nevertheless, I still admire Bassenco's stand against abusive preachers - someone had to speak up, when everyone else was in "deny, deny, deny" mode.
Yes, again, I respect that she is doing a honorable thing by exposing predators. I just can't go so far to say that I miss her. She had far too much gross generalizing and deception in her writing style for me to overlook, her ecclesiology just being one of them. I suppose you can say that as it regards important issues of church abuse that she's worth chewing up the meat and spitting out the bones, but her theological and philosophical views were traveling in a variety of ways, and to my recollection one of the more problematic was her penchant for postmodern thought. I specifically remember her saying it's not the author's intent that matters but how people interpret and perceive an original writing that is the governing narrative that defines truth. That's a load of manure (as was a host of her arguments and methodologies)! She also had a flair for trending towards feminist ideology. I could say more, but that gives too much ink and headspace so I'm done talking about her. ☺️
 
Yes, again, I respect that she is doing a honorable thing by exposing predators. I just can't go so far to say that I miss her. She had far too much gross generalizing and deception in her writing style for me to overlook, her ecclesiology just being one of them. I suppose you can say that as it regards important issues of church abuse that she's worth chewing up the meat and spitting out the bones, but her theological and philosophical views were traveling in a variety of ways, and to my recollection one of the more problematic was her penchant for postmodern thought. I specifically remember her saying it's not the author's intent that matters but how people interpret and perceive an original writing that is the governing narrative that defines truth. That's a load of manure (as was a host of her arguments and methodologies)! She also had a flair for trending towards feminist ideology. I could say more, but that gives too much ink and headspace so I'm done talking about her. ☺️
Agreed. She was "off the charts" in some things....very left-leaning.
 
Latest update on Agape and Circle of Hope - "Missouri House Speaker Rob Vescovo urged federal authorities in a Sept. 21 letter to intervene in the Agape case, labeling Gaither and other county officials as 'undeniably corrupt.'. . . Vescovo blasted Gaither as 'one more in a long line of local officials who have either turned a blind eye to, or helped to cover up, the criminal actions of the staff at Agape.'”

Prosecutor says restraining children at Agape Boarding School doesn’t violate the law (yahoo.com)
 
Latest update on Agape and Circle of Hope - "Missouri House Speaker Rob Vescovo urged federal authorities in a Sept. 21 letter to intervene in the Agape case, labeling Gaither and other county officials as 'undeniably corrupt.'. . . Vescovo blasted Gaither as 'one more in a long line of local officials who have either turned a blind eye to, or helped to cover up, the criminal actions of the staff at Agape.'”

Prosecutor says restraining children at Agape Boarding School doesn’t violate the law (yahoo.com)
In what manner are they restrained? Is the method illegal? There's nothing wrong with restraining a child if it's necessary for their own safety, and I know from experience as a foster parent that at times restraint of a child is necessary.
 
How were they restrained? From the posted article: "Sandoval was recently indicted by a federal grand jury for violating a restraining order — issued at the request of a minor boy against his mother — by transporting him against his will to Agape. The teen was dropped off at Agape in the summer of 2021 after a 27-hour drive from California, the indictment said, his hands cuffed behind his back the entire way. . . .'In Agape, we tried multiple times to file 65 felony charges against 22 co-defendants for crimes of abuse that were related to the draconian restraints used on the students at Agape,' Nuelle said. 'If a parent handcuffed their child for 100 hours straight, used a Brillo pad to try to scrub off a tattoo, or did anything close to what we allege that Agape did in our pleadings, they would rightly be arrested and prosecuted for child abuse.'
 
How were they restrained? From the posted article: "Sandoval was recently indicted by a federal grand jury for violating a restraining order — issued at the request of a minor boy against his mother — by transporting him against his will to Agape. The teen was dropped off at Agape in the summer of 2021 after a 27-hour drive from California, the indictment said, his hands cuffed behind his back the entire way. . . .'In Agape, we tried multiple times to file 65 felony charges against 22 co-defendants for crimes of abuse that were related to the draconian restraints used on the students at Agape,' Nuelle said. 'If a parent handcuffed their child for 100 hours straight, used a Brillo pad to try to scrub off a tattoo, or did anything close to what we allege that Agape did in our pleadings, they would rightly be arrested and prosecuted for child abuse.'
If those things occured, then this place needs to be closed down. I know that there were many infractions in the homes that were run by the man, Lester Roloff, in Texas. It's a shame that the government and law enforcement wouldn't get very involved back then. They seem as reluctant today to handle these kinds of accusations anywhere as they were back then.
 
Agape Boarding School remains open, while new allegations of abuse continue to pile up, and more lawsuits are filed:




"The motions include allegations that outline instances of physical, sexual and emotional abuse . . . While at Agape Boarding School, Bucklin was physically abused, including one instance where a staff member choked him with a hair trimmer cord, according to the motion. Another former student reported an instance of a staff member 'slamming his head through drywall' and yet another former student reported that after a suicide attempt, a staff member 'bashed' his head into the floor, breaking the former student's nose and braces. . . . Meanwhile, the state of Missouri's attempt to close Agape Boarding School seems to have ground to a halt."



 
Allegations aren't convictions by a jury in a court of law. I've had friends who were in such places (Roloff homes for one) and they were physically abused...thrown against the wall, held down on the floor, and punched. This seems to be a common occurrence in most of these places. These places need to be highly regulated with regular visits from law enforcement and other government officials.
 
Agape Boarding School, operated by Agape Baptist Church (IFB) in Stockton, Missouri, remains open, but the new Missouri Attorney General says he will continue to try to shut it down: "Missouri's new attorney general said Tuesday he would continue litigation against Agape Boarding School, as the school accused of abuse pauses enrolling new students and yet another judge takes over the state's case. Asked whether he would continue the state's case against Agape, AG Andrew Bailey, sworn into office on Tuesday, said 'yes.'"


A former Agape Boarding School staff member has moved on to another private prison in Kentucky, where he has been charged with criminal assault and abuse of the '"students" there: "A former staff member at Agape Boarding School in Missouri who later opened his own Christian school in Kentucky has been charged with abusing students there. Kelly Vanderkooi, 52, was indicted by a grand jury in Kentucky last month on 21 counts of first-degree criminal abuse of a child 12 or under and 10 counts of fourth-degree assault (child abuse). . . .

"It’s the second time in as many months that a former Agape Boarding School staffer has been charged with crimes against children. In mid-November, Steve Wukmer, 66, was charged in Alabama with 215 counts of possession of child pornography. Agape confirmed that Wukmer worked at the school near Stockton from April 2005 to February 2006 and said he left to become an assistant director of a small boarding school in Ohio. He also served as a children’s minister in that state, according to Alabama authorities."



Agape Boarding School remains open, but they are no longer accepting new inmates, at least for now - they are referring them to other private prisons - they have posted a link to a "Christian Boarding Schools Directory:"

 
Agape Boarding School is finally closing down for good, due to "lack of financial resources." This may mean that enough supporting churches wised up and took them out of their "missions" budget:




As of June, 2022, Agape had lost their accreditation with the National Council of Private School Accreditation, Accreditation International and the Association of Christian Teachers and Schools.




There are at least 19 lawsuits pending against the Agape "ministry."


 
The article I posted from the Kansas City Star on Saturday, about Circle of Hope Girls Ranch, also mentions a nearby private prison for boys called Agape Boarding School in Stockton, Missouri. Their web site describes it as nondenominational and King James Only. Looks like Agape has also had some bad press and dissatisfied customers over the years. And I thought maybe Hephzibah House was the last of these abusive IFB private prisons for teens - how silly of me to believe that.

Suit says former student with disabilities abused at Agape | The Kansas City Star
Agape Boarding School in Stockton, MO is closed.
 
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