IFB X-Files said:
Tom Brennan said:
Actually, I do have a handful I keep in touch with via fb from back in my Bible Club days. They warm my heart very much...
A "handful" is really great. With all the bragging that goes on in IFB circles about soul winning, in my experience it's a rare thing to have a relationship with anyone you led to the Lord, discipled, seen baptized and helped them to grow.
I have to DISAGREE with you about it being a rare thing to have a relationship with ANYONE you led to the Lord, discipled, seen baptized and helped them to grow in IFB circles unless things are much worse in IFB circles than I can imagine.
Many parents have led their children to the Lord, discipled them for several years, seen them baptized, and even helped them grow as any halfway decent parent would attempt to do. Some grandparents then continue with their children, their children's spouses, and maybe even the grandchildren, if the Lord so blesses them.
I am not disagreeing if you exclude family, but to me, family is a pretty important inclusion with any discussion concerning salvation, discipling, and having a continued relationship. Ask anyone 50-60 + years old, etc...
But, you already knew that.