aleshanee said:admin said:I know quite a few people who have the same tuft. What meant something 20 years ago does not mean the same today. So giving him the benefit of the doubt is reasonable.
oh really?..... because i heard it called by that same name just a few years ago when i worked at starbucks by tourist describing someone who wore one.......i said "20 years ago" because that was when i was immersed in that culture and heard terms like that used all the time........... i;m younger than you are .... and younger than most people here...... don;t you think if i can see that and have a memory like that come to mind that other americans and church goers much older than both of us don;t see it and think the same things?..........
i;m not saying he is wearing that thing on his upper chin to give off a vulgar impression..... like i said..... he might simply be ignorant of the culture he is representing by having it...... and by clearly maintaining it so carefully... : ..... likewise his fans .... or most of them... might be ignorant of it too........... but he sends out a negative message to those who are not ignorant of it...... and some of those might be the very people he and his fans would like to add to his fan base but have so far been unable to.......... just saying.........
aleshanee said:well then maybe you can answer this question i asked about him in another thread.... 8)
nothing against toby mac personally..... i;ll give him the benefit of the doubt that he might be ignorant of a few aspects of the culture he is representing........... but do any of you fans of toby mac know what that little tuft of facial hair he wears under his lower lip is called?..... ....
admin said:^ simultaneous postings.
Aleshanee... I understand your difficulty with the culture in which you were raised. I am sure it offends you greatly. I can appreciate that.
However, not everything finds its origins in the strip club. Try not to let it define everything you see.
admin said:Are we talking about the "soul patch?"
aleshanee said:the term i heard used to describe it went by the initials of C. T. ..... and if you want to know what that means send me a pm and i;ll tell you......you can call it what you want but i can guarantee you a large part of the population still knows it by it;s former name.... and if you check into it... i;ll be willing to bet it is still called by that name in the strip club culture today......
admin said:Of course, strip clubs would take it and twist it.
aleshanee said:subllibrm said:Since he keeps invading so many other threads I thought he should finally have one of his own. 8)
well then maybe you can answer this question i asked about him in another thread.... 8)
nothing against toby mac personally..... i;ll give him the benefit of the doubt that he might be ignorant of a few aspects of the culture he is representing........... but do any of you fans of toby mac know what that little tuft of facial hair he wears under his lower lip is called?..... .... having spent the first 10 years of my life in the back room of strip clubs while my mom... and later my older sister... danced on stage........ i heard carefully scuplted and trimmed bits of facial hair like that referred to by a very specific and vulgar term......... and no..... i don;t want anybody here to post or or repeat it.... ..i;m just saying that even 20 years after being removed from that scene i still can;t even look at a picture of toby macs face... or of anyone else sporting that same upper chin decoration... and not have that phrase run through my head........
ALAYMAN said:Even before I became a Christian as a young man I had great disdain for the peer pressure and pop culture lemming philosophy. I just have never been a follower. If somebody were to say to me "do this and it will make ya cool" then you can bet I'd probably do just the opposite. I like to make my own mind up as to why I do what I do, say what I say, and go where I go. Of course that maverick streak has been tamed by the Lord now that I have been redeemed. But that penchant for not following the crowd leaves me pretty unimpressed by the whole hip-hop nation (and other pop culture movements like it). I think it makes Christians look gullible, and often times worldly. We ought to be creative and novel in our attitudes that are derived from the Bible, not merely lock-step devotees of the latest skinny-jeans and soul patch (or Andy Griffity/Father Knows Best) phenomenon. That's my story, and I'm stickin' to it.
ALAYMAN said:Even before I became a Christian as a young man I had great disdain for the peer pressure and pop culture lemming philosophy. I just have never been a follower. If somebody were to say to me "do this and it will make ya cool" then you can bet I'd probably do just the opposite. I like to make my own mind up as to why I do what I do, say what I say, and go where I go. Of course that maverick streak has been tamed by the Lord now that I have been redeemed. But that penchant for not following the crowd leaves me pretty unimpressed by the whole hip-hop nation (and other pop culture movements like it). I think it makes Christians look gullible, and often times worldly. We ought to be creative and novel in our attitudes that are derived from the Bible, not merely lock-step devotees of the latest skinny-jeans and soul patch (or Andy Griffity/Father Knows Best) phenomenon. That's my story, and I'm stickin' to it.
ALAYMAN said:Even before I became a Christian as a young man I had great disdain for the peer pressure and pop culture lemming philosophy. I just have never been a follower. If somebody were to say to me "do this and it will make ya cool" then you can bet I'd probably do just the opposite. I like to make my own mind up as to why I do what I do, say what I say, and go where I go. Of course that maverick streak has been tamed by the Lord now that I have been redeemed. But that penchant for not following the crowd leaves me pretty unimpressed by the whole hip-hop nation (and other pop culture movements like it). I think it makes Christians look gullible, and often times worldly. We ought to be creative and novel in our attitudes that are derived from the Bible, not merely lock-step devotees of the latest skinny-jeans and soul patch (or Andy Griffity/Father Knows Best) phenomenon. That's my story, and I'm stickin' to it.