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Considering that the world has changed around me in numerous ways that I probably hadn't fully realized, as the recent discussion about STEM and woke philosophy demonstrated, I seek the collective forum knowledge about a situation that is probably fairly innocuous, but nonetheless personally perplexing. Some quick backstory first...
I came from a blue-collar background, and was one of a very few in my immediate and extended family to graduate college. My aspirations and drive for collegiate ambition was simply to get a piece of paper that would lead to a decent job/pay all in order to marry ALAYGIRLFRIEND (which all turned out as close to script as could have been imagined). I had no aspirations of being a rocket scientist or adcademian, nothing of the sort. As such, while in college, I had typical study habits that meant that only the most challenging courses demanded any serious effort on my part. That translated to a laissez-faire attitude which saw me spend way too much time in the student union, and a fair amount of time skipping fluff class lectures. Those skipped classes often either were those that ALAYGIRLFRIEND (who was pretty much a science geek straight A type) also was taking at the same time, or social science type classes with requirements that were easily passed with the most minimal efforts. The simple point is that those classes generally did nothing for me in pursuit of my area of vocational preparations, nor greatly enriched my breadth of knowledge in areas of things that interested me outside of the hard sciences. I'm not necessarily justifying the skipping of class in those cases (though both scenarios usually resulted in me earning an A in those skipped classes), but onto the point of the rambling...
It isn't that uncommon for classes to be ditched, for a variety of reasons, some of which are legitimate, some not so much. It recently came to my attention that ALAYBOY, who is doing quite well academically (though not perfect As) in pursuit of a career in medicine, began to sleep in Monday mornings and skip the 8am Chem lecture. He says that the lecture is video recorded and he has access to it. In addition, he has a classmate who attends and able to give him notes. Lastly, supposedly, the syllabus indicates that in-class attendance is optional. Rather than spill a ton more ink in this OP, the simple questions is this....
what advice and concerns would you have in this scenario (given that he indeed is getting A grades in the class skipped)?
I came from a blue-collar background, and was one of a very few in my immediate and extended family to graduate college. My aspirations and drive for collegiate ambition was simply to get a piece of paper that would lead to a decent job/pay all in order to marry ALAYGIRLFRIEND (which all turned out as close to script as could have been imagined). I had no aspirations of being a rocket scientist or adcademian, nothing of the sort. As such, while in college, I had typical study habits that meant that only the most challenging courses demanded any serious effort on my part. That translated to a laissez-faire attitude which saw me spend way too much time in the student union, and a fair amount of time skipping fluff class lectures. Those skipped classes often either were those that ALAYGIRLFRIEND (who was pretty much a science geek straight A type) also was taking at the same time, or social science type classes with requirements that were easily passed with the most minimal efforts. The simple point is that those classes generally did nothing for me in pursuit of my area of vocational preparations, nor greatly enriched my breadth of knowledge in areas of things that interested me outside of the hard sciences. I'm not necessarily justifying the skipping of class in those cases (though both scenarios usually resulted in me earning an A in those skipped classes), but onto the point of the rambling...
It isn't that uncommon for classes to be ditched, for a variety of reasons, some of which are legitimate, some not so much. It recently came to my attention that ALAYBOY, who is doing quite well academically (though not perfect As) in pursuit of a career in medicine, began to sleep in Monday mornings and skip the 8am Chem lecture. He says that the lecture is video recorded and he has access to it. In addition, he has a classmate who attends and able to give him notes. Lastly, supposedly, the syllabus indicates that in-class attendance is optional. Rather than spill a ton more ink in this OP, the simple questions is this....
what advice and concerns would you have in this scenario (given that he indeed is getting A grades in the class skipped)?
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