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  1. ALAYMAN

    Wives, Sisters, and Daughters, Please Speak

    What’s weird about it? And do you think you could ever not have contempt against such a person? OK, you made yourself clear that your contempt is for the one who has offended. So, do you have contempt for those who try to minister to them and would allow them in their congregation with the...
  2. ALAYMAN

    Wives, Sisters, and Daughters, Please Speak

    So which do you have more contempt for, the offender who wants to grow in grace with the help of other Christians, or the Church who wants to do the helping?
  3. ALAYMAN

    Wives, Sisters, and Daughters, Please Speak

    Yes, as I said very recently in this thread (you may have not read that far yet), the victim within the congregation would be prioritized so as not to cause further pain and trauma by being forced to choose between church attendance vs the congregation having a former pedophile in attendance.
  4. ALAYMAN

    Wives, Sisters, and Daughters, Please Speak

    I think that you’re looking to use the Bible to back up what you want to believe, rather than letting the Bible inform your values/ethics/morals, at least to some extent (for this issue). I understand your revulsion at the extreme heinous depravity of this particular sin, and truth be told, it...
  5. ALAYMAN

    Wives, Sisters, and Daughters, Please Speak

    Your attitude and intent so far has shown you intend to do nothing less. Long on retribution, vengeance, and judgment. Short on rightly divided Scripture, the gospel, and forgiveness. As I’ve said earlier, you’re in plentiful company within cultural Christianity.
  6. ALAYMAN

    Wives, Sisters, and Daughters, Please Speak

    I’m willing to disciple them, hold them accountable, and to see them be victorious as they grow in sanctification.
  7. ALAYMAN

    Wives, Sisters, and Daughters, Please Speak

    Because they are Christians.
  8. ALAYMAN

    Wives, Sisters, and Daughters, Please Speak

    Do you think those temptations go away for the Christian when they are outside of the assembly?
  9. ALAYMAN

    Wives, Sisters, and Daughters, Please Speak

    No, I am saying that it appears that from your contempt and revulsion of their disgusting sin that you are unwilling to allow them the privilege of fellowship in the here and now. In heaven, there will be no lack of harmony or unity.
  10. ALAYMAN

    Wives, Sisters, and Daughters, Please Speak

    Two things that are good takeaways from what you said. Number one, any person who has been violated or abused ought to, as soon as they’re capable, report the offender to a trusted authority and get counseling if possible. Number two, awareness is a great thing when it comes to knowledge of and...
  11. ALAYMAN

    Wives, Sisters, and Daughters, Please Speak

    I totally agree with this. If there are victims of the offender in the church who are not able to cope with the trauma then their safety and security should be the higher priority. In addition, one of the modern outcroppings of Ministry is the idea of “cell groups”, which is where smaller...
  12. ALAYMAN

    Wives, Sisters, and Daughters, Please Speak

    You present a false dichotomy. It is possible and advisable to do both.
  13. ALAYMAN

    Wives, Sisters, and Daughters, Please Speak

    You’re going to spend eternity worshipping with some, you might start working on those implications in the here and now. In the appropriate capital murder sense, yes. For my entire life I have believed that pedophiles and rapist should be castrated, either chemically or otherwise. I believe...
  14. ALAYMAN

    Wives, Sisters, and Daughters, Please Speak

    Because just a couple of posts earlier you said “Looks like the death penalty for child molesters as well.” So you clearly seem to believe the death penalty is authorized by Scripture for this offense. If that’s the correct implication (hint: it’s not), then either it’s the church or state...
  15. ALAYMAN

    Wives, Sisters, and Daughters, Please Speak

    Do you think that the Church should execute offenders?
  16. ALAYMAN

    Wives, Sisters, and Daughters, Please Speak

    Lots and lots of wisdom here, I will revisit this later. We have our last night of VBS this evening and it is super busy as you might expect.
  17. ALAYMAN

    Steven Furtick can do anything!!

    The Dove Awards are a convention for church discipline?
  18. ALAYMAN

    Wives, Sisters, and Daughters, Please Speak

    Yeah, I agree with all that, and the church in your video handled that employment situation very poorly. Having said that, there are proper ways for a church to handle offenders who have paid their legal debt to society and genuinely repented of their sin.
  19. ALAYMAN

    Wives, Sisters, and Daughters, Please Speak

    You do realize that this notion of forgiveness and church attendance for offenders isn’t unique to IFBs, right? You think the article I linked to was sponsored by an IFB group? You should learn to expand your perspective of thinking beyond the small circle you’ve been in. I would have said that...
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