REBoyce said:
"Controlling the conversation"? Amigo, I'm simply trying to ensure that I'm properly understanding your side of it!
I seriously doubt it.
You never asked me a question, my friend. Not sure what's got you wound up, but for me to leave unasked questioned unanswered only to receive your "typical dishonest Calvinist tactics" comment, I'd say you appear to have a pretty large axe to grind.
My reference to dishonest tactics.... was in response to your choice to ignore what I wrote. I don't have an axe to grind. I've never meet a single Calvinist that would last more than a few posts with me. I refuse to let a Calvinist control the conversation. I'm not going let you control this one. I a big boy. I know your tactics. Once you get past the childish reasoning..... there really isn't much to them. If you want to be serious, then when I answer your question.... the allow me to ask one myself. I will say that generally consider Calvinist that believe in Irresistible Grace.....heretics. Deceivers. Wretched people. So... there is no need to call me friend. I'm not your friend.
You mention "forced" relationships, but I think you forget the OP. Do you or do you not believe that God could have created a universe such that all mankind would WILLINGLY enter into a relationship with God through the atoning work of Christ?
Do you believe in Irresistible Grace? This is exactly what irresistible teaches. Parse the words ever how you like. It means the exact same thing.
I see no difference in the scenario you presented. Direct or indirectly influencing an absolute outcome....results in coercion. Plain and simple... just like you like it....
God could have made Barack Obama the best President that ever lived.... Obviously he didn't.
No biblical Calvinist would every affirm that God forces anyone into a relationship- be it with Him or Satan.
Liar.... This is exactly what Irresistible Grace teaches.... or do you refuse to recognize the word "overcome" in every standard definition of IG...
Nor would a Calvinist every say that anything God does is arbitrary. I dislike your straw men as much as you do, lol.
I never said it was arbitrary to God. Never. It is arbitrary to man that God would predestine one man to Hell and an identical man to Heaven. I expect to read "The good pleasure of His will any moment.....
You assume that God caring most about His desires makes Him a tyrant. Do you have any Biblical reason to say this? Do you have a Biblical argument against the idea of God doing everything He most wants to? The Psalmist is clear that God does everything that pleases Him (see 115:3 and 135:6). This doesn't make Him a tyrant. It makes Him a sovereign God. Unless you would argue that God doesn't achieve that which He most desires?
Of course God doesn't achieve everything He desires. Sovereignty doesn't anything to do with this. It pleased God to empower man to do what man desires. Often man does things that are contrary to His desire. Have you ever heard of the word Judgement? I hope you realize the Judgment is where God judges mankind for doing things contrary to a His desire.....