The “fighting” part of the forum’s name now makes sense…I was a little confused by this at first. I haven’t really experienced any of these Hyles or “IFBx” churches (as Alayman noted). I’ve experienced a couple churches that have most (not all) women who shun pants, or who lean heavily on music that’s older fashioned. My wife and daughter still wears pants, but typically will wear a dress to church. I have a teenager, and we have guidelines for music, but admittedly we do allow CCM and some clean secular music (usually pop or country). However, when at church activities, we do ask to be respectful of the church’s stance. Honestly, it’s never been an issue for us.
I totally understand kids don’t usually have any choice in where their parents take them to church. However, what does confuse me is grown adults who bellyache about their fundamentalists church. If you’re an adult, then move your family to a place of worship where you feel led by God. I’ve met a handful of adults who play the blame game and try to act like their church ruined their kids upbringing and act as though all of life’s ills are the church or pastor’s fault. To me, this seems like an easy way of not looking in the mirror at one’s own decisions in life. No one forced someone to attend a church (again, speaking of adults).