T-Bone said:
ItinerantPreacher said:
T-Bone said:
ItinerantPreacher said:
T-Bone said:
ItinerantPreacher said:
T-Bone said:
Everything else aside, I'm still amazed that anybody would think a woman wearing ladies slacks is cross-dressing!
If this hijacks the thread, we should start another one, but my question is can a lady crossdress, and if so how? I think we would both agree a man can, as a matter of fact it is becoming a much more common occurence in society, so if a man can, can a lady and if so how?
Yes I agree it is very strange time we live in, to see men cross-dressing is become to common. As for the ladies I do believe they could cross-dress, if she is dressing to look like a man. There are pants and outfits where a lady could wear to intentionally look like a man,
and then there are slacks that are clearly for the feminine lady. I have no problem telling the difference. In the same way I can tell that a man in a kilt, or Jesus in a robe are not cross dressing.
What makes them slacks that are clearly for the feminine lady? (I am not being facetious, I am curious as to what you consider feminine pants or slacks) Are you referring to cut or colour?
The cut clearly is different...I can tell just by looking, and I think most can.
If the cut is different, are they still modest? It is a reasonable question, by cut most mean "tight" on a gal, loose on a man. I would say if it is cut to show femininity, it is no longer modest. Btw, modest applies to both genders.
Brother, you have clearly made up your mind, which is fine, but now your questions are disingenuous. A dress make s a woman look feminine some are modest some are not...the same with slacks.
I was being frank. You are right, I have made up my mind, but at no time was I trying to be trite or malicious. Tone is hard to read by text or forum.
You are quite right, the fact that it is a skirt/dress does not make it modest, only feminine. Length/tightness would define the modest part. By the same token, young men now wear pants that are masculine enough, but not modest either. The painted on skinny jean is the style, at least it is hear.
See, in my experience, I have had several ladies in a church where I was only a member make the statement that they did not believe that a lady had to wear a skirt to remain feminine, that they could wear pants/slacks that were both feminine and modest. I never saw one do so. They would say that, and then clearly wear clothing that was not modest. Very, very form fitting. They negated their proposal by their action.
I believe that both sexes should be modest, that the standard or guideline of modesty does not only apply to the ladies. I point this out only because 90% of the talk of clothing is aimed towards the ladies. I also think both sexes should be gender specific. Both OT and NT make reference to it in different areas.
T-Bone, we have gotten short with each other here a couple times, but our last couple exchanges have been very respectful. I appreciate that and was not trying to be trite with you. Just wanted you to know that. I very much realize many here will not agree with me on many issues.