cpizzle said:
We are all called to service, but few are called to "leadership." Leadership in the ministry does carry it's own set of burdens and blessings. This is especially true in "Full Time" Christian service. The expectations placed upon FT pastors and missionaries are enormous. In IFB circles, the "earthly reward" is hardly commiserate with the "labor." The constant judging of the leader and his family is probably the greatest cause of stress and misery. Every service, they are put on trial and one "slip up" can lose them an influential member. Even worse for FT assistants. The "Man of God" micromanages every aspect of their lives and pays them very low wages. Without the comfort of the Holy Ghost and a full reliance on divine grace, many of them burn out and become casualties. Or, they become pastors and joyfully wield the authority against others. They were beaten with whips, they will beat their assistants with scorpions.
Let's not forget the blessings... most pastors that I know of take off Mondays - most of the church members don't get ANY day off. They "work" their secular job Mon-Fri, do church visitation/soul-winning/bus work on Sat, and work their own "ministry" on Sunday (playing the piano, teaching SS, other items). So, they get NO days off at all, while the pastor gets off one day, and, usually, he can set his own hours and times.
In addition, many hotels or vacation spots have free housing (or deep discounts for ministers).
They don't have discounts for red-headed, Texan-speaking middle-aged guys, so I have to pay full price.