Web said:
Bruh said:
IFB X-Files said:
I would think it would be a normal reaction to blame/question yourself when someone you love stumbles.
Having said that, there are no doubt many married Christian women who use sex as a weapon to control their husbands.
How do you know that women control their husbands this way?
Sounds like he speaks from experience...
The younger among us have never even experienced manhood or womanhood.
They have no ideas of the threats that exist, because they (men) surrender to a corrupt way, in order to marry.
The woman takes the lead, sexually, period.
So, they can't even imagine a relationship where their wives' desires don't dominate the marriage bed.
They actually feel like they are being the required gentleman, rather than that Satan has sewn occasion among them, by convincing the wife to defraud her husband.
There is a primary and secondary result.
We see porn, and such, on the rise, but if a man goes to counsel, he will never get to hear a trusted voice tell his wife that her body belongs to him and his desires.
He will instead be given a formula to help swallow the bitter pill of being regularly robbed.
Young men now know that marriage for them will be a surrender of their will, rather than the care of another who has surrendered theirs.
They look up to their wives.
They think their wives are smarter than them, and therefore more capable of steering such matters.
In some cases, they may spend the entire length of their marriage, being the apologizer , while their wife, that they put on an undeserved pedestal, never once even admits to being wrong.
Because of their ignorance of manhood, men are easily swayed into bitterness and straying.
Every step of their life, they have been subjected to female authority figures, lied to from pulpits, redirected by a rebellious mother, and etc.
Then their is the problem of spending their puberty being made to act like girls most of the day long, only exercising for play that applauds their every achievement.
This is diametrically opposed to the 12-year-old-apprenticeship of Christ's example, where a boy would work with his father, be trained in a trade, and build his own house before 30.
When a Native boy hit puberty, he would train for and take his Brave test, becoming a man as soon as possible, joining hunting and warring parties.
Now, the frustrated man-boy waits in his man-cave gaming with the other wimps online, for whenever queenbee descends from her throne to tell him he gets to play with her.
I never thought I would live to see the day where men were the ones using sex as a weapon, but it is here.
Haklo
) how might this verse play into the discussion....
