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graceandtruth said:
aleshanee said:
graceandtruth said:
aleshanee said:
graceandtruth said:
I am not making it a African-american or Euro-american issue.  This issues do exist and the church needs to address these issues.  If the redeemed can't get this right then there is no hope for this country ever rising about its inhumane treatment of humans.

I think the problem is that I will not be bullied or insulted into silence and I will not agree with wrong views held by the majority.  Acceptance is good but assimilation is always deadly to the one being assimilated.
 

yes you have.... to the point that you have totally disregarded the experiences and opinions of people from other races... (like myself.. mexican-navajo)... as if nothing we have to say or can relate to concerning racism is relevant... simply because we are not african american... .. you have put all of us (no matter what our racial heritage is or what kind discrimination and bigotry it is we might have encountered).. all into the same category as euro-americans.... .... which tells me that african americans in the 21st century of your social class and affluence don;t see us as any more worthy of consideration than european americans saw either of us 100 years ago ....

you didn;t look at the evidence presented in the case.....  when i first heard about this story i felt the same way you did.... i saw it as black and white...cut and dried.... .. but the evidence showed a much bigger picture.....  you are continuing to see it in black and white and doing nobody either black or white any good in the process...... you keep asking everyone here to check their racial bigot card?.... maybe you should take a hard look at your own...........

Thanks for the info aleshanee.

Your assumption that I didn't look at the evidence because I didn't arrive at the same conclusion with you and the rest of the folks on this forum is quite incorrect and telling.

I am aware that others have experienced discrimination in america.  I am also aware that each group has a unique experience and those from the other groups do not full grasp the experience of others.  I know their is a difference between being stolen from your homeland and having your homeland stolen from you.  I know there is a difference between being denied your humanity and the ability to understand what is happening to you in a strange land and the same things occurring in your homeland.  I know there is a difference between your culture being accepted as valid, i.e. Native Americans, and your culture being declared invalid, i.e. African-Americans.

I am not being any more divisive when I point out the issues that effect African-Americans in america than Paul was when he reference the existence of Jews and Gentiles.  Paul refused to let the dominate culture of the Jews in the church become the culture of the church but this has not been the case in america.  Paul did not call for assimilation or ignoring the issues as those in this forum have but instead he called for acceptance of differences and different views. 

My concern with the subject is the silence of some and the vocal support of injustice or cry that there can be no such thing as injustice when it comes to African-americans and their insistence that I join them.  My concern is with the euro view that other people groups need their paternal input to "really" understand what they experience.  My concern is with those who claim to be Christians continuing the silence and support for injustice that characterized the church in america during slavery, Jim Crow, etc.  My concern is that the people on this forum feel it is christlike to insult and belittle me because I do not agree with their skewed view.  My concern is that the same people who hold up the prophets' identification with their fathers' sins as an example of Christianity refuse to do the same but yet identify all African-americans who disagree with them with the sins of their brothers. 

Oh yeah, I don't know who EW is but my name is Wesley Roy and I am not EW but I am WR.  :D

what do you know of your culture graceandtruth?.... have you ever made an effort to learn about it?... .. do you ever lie awake at night and wish your ancestors had never been removed from it... and that you and your family were immersed in that culture still?....

and what do you know of me or my culture?... what makes you believe my culture was ever considered valid or accepted?..... you say my assumption that you didn;t look at evidence (which you never the less disregarded whether you actually looked or not) ... is "telling"?... .. ok....... and when you try to assume some superior mantel of "collective injustice" based on the history of your people.. then imply you think that i don;t understand because my culture was somehow accepted when yours was not... that is also telling... ..... european americans never considered my culture valid.... they did all could to destroy it.....  and the u.s army contracted to help destroy it and to keep my ancestors from preserving their culture in 1890 certainly did not accept it or consider it valid either....

and did you know... that when the u.s army opened fire with cannons on a group of starving and near frozen to death native americans 1890... then sent the cavalry to chase down those who tried to run away in the snow.... trampling women and children under the hooves of their horses... that african american members of that cavalry.. (called buffalo soldiers).. were among those who not only too part riding those women and children down.... but also received commendations for their "heroic" actions.... .. and that wasn;t a rare or unique incidence either...  the history of african american cavalry.. or buffalo soldiers... not only being sent to assist in the slaughter of native americans all over the western united states in the late 19th century... but also of them carrying out that duty with great enthusiasm.... is well known....

why am i saying this?...... because if you are going to adorn yourself with the collective mantle of the history of your people... and claim a right to anger and indignation against the rest of us based on that history... whether or not anything ever happened to you personally ...  then you should be willing to accept and wear all the parts of that mantle and collective history.... .. both that which you feel justifies you and entitles you to your anger.... and also that which should make you feel ashamed....  . if i am supposed to feel ashamed and partly responsible...as a native american... for what european americans that i am not even related to did your people in previous centuries... ... then perhaps you should feel ashamed for what african americans.. which you are related to and have also claimed the collective mantle of ....did to mine in a more recent century......

you should give careful thought to this wave of righteous indignation and air of moral superiority that have over taken you here in recent weeks.... and consider whether all of it is justified..... 

I apologize for our involvement in the oppression of your people.  I have no mantle but I just as emotionally charged about the stealing and systemic dehumanizing of my ancestors.  I am also emotionally charged about the fact that people think we should be silent about the ways in which this treatment of African-americans continues in more subtle but just as real ways today.

I have no qualm with you and do not claim to have some superior position.  We have been robbed of our names, languages, history, humanity, dignity, cultures, etc. and any attempts to bring these facts to light are summarily rebuffed.  My last name is Roy which is Scottish.........really.  I am not blaming you for this because you have experienced the same type of events.  However, I see no reason not to speak to the African-american reality in america.

Strange that we cheer the prophets when they say we and our fathers have sinned but when it is america's turn...............

If I can forgive the Germans and Russians for how they treated my ancestors, I am pretty sure you can forgive Europeans and Americans for how we treated yours.  Now, man up, grow up, and get over it you big whiny baby!


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Smellin Coffee said:
Sure. I don't know why my wife gets so emotional over "small stuff" at times but I acknowledge that reasonable or not, those feelings are legitimate so I empathize with her emotionally though I don't see or understand from her perspective. Nor does she understand when I cry when the Bears lose! :D

I see.... You become emotional empathic to the point you give up questioning her need to cry.

While its your wife and you handle it every how you want to handle it..... I have never taken that approach. I have no problem bringing out the fact "crying" over something "silly" is really useless. Our mind plays tricks on us. Our emotions play tricks on us. Happens to us all. Regardless of gender or race. I'd rather how someone call me on it than someone say....

I don't feel like you feel but its okay for you to feel that way. Enough your "cry".....

 
Can someone please tell me who oppressed the Greeks in the past so I know who I'm supposed to hate? 
 
christundivided said:
Smellin Coffee said:
Sure. I don't know why my wife gets so emotional over "small stuff" at times but I acknowledge that reasonable or not, those feelings are legitimate so I empathize with her emotionally though I don't see or understand from her perspective. Nor does she understand when I cry when the Bears lose! :D

I see.... You become emotional empathic to the point you give up questioning her need to cry.

While its your wife and you handle it every how you want to handle it..... I have never taken that approach. I have no problem bringing out the fact "crying" over something "silly" is really useless. Our mind plays tricks on us. Our emotions play tricks on us. Happens to us all. Regardless of gender or race. I'd rather how someone call me on it than someone say....

I don't feel like you feel but its okay for you to feel that way. Enough your "cry".....

And you are welcome to your feelings on the matter. :D

"Silly" or not, feelings are real. Emotions are real. Hurt is real. I choose to give others some space and give them some leeway and understanding.  That is what I choose to do. That doesn't mean I will let the ones I love wallow in it but IMHO it is simply gracious to give people the freedom to "feel" without my judgement about them.
 
Smellin Coffee said:
christundivided said:
Smellin Coffee said:
Sure. I don't know why my wife gets so emotional over "small stuff" at times but I acknowledge that reasonable or not, those feelings are legitimate so I empathize with her emotionally though I don't see or understand from her perspective. Nor does she understand when I cry when the Bears lose! :D

I see.... You become emotional empathic to the point you give up questioning her need to cry.

While its your wife and you handle it every how you want to handle it..... I have never taken that approach. I have no problem bringing out the fact "crying" over something "silly" is really useless. Our mind plays tricks on us. Our emotions play tricks on us. Happens to us all. Regardless of gender or race. I'd rather how someone call me on it than someone say....

I don't feel like you feel but its okay for you to feel that way. Enough your "cry".....

And you are welcome to your feelings on the matter. :D

"Silly" or not, feelings are real. Emotions are real. Hurt is real. I choose to give others some space and give them some leeway and understanding.  That is what I choose to do. That doesn't mean I will let the ones I love wallow in it but IMHO it is simply gracious to give people the freedom to "feel" without my judgement about them.

I understand what you're saying..... but I'm glad God doesn't operate the same way. I'm glad he "calls us" on the silliness of our emotions. Truth is what matters. If you ignore the "truth" of a situation over the fact you're "hurt".... then you're in for a lot of pain over something that's not real.
 
Castor Muscular said:
Can someone please tell me who oppressed the Greeks in the past so I know who I'm supposed to hate?

Is that that "Greeks" or "Geeks"?

Didn't you watch "300"?
 
Smellin Coffee said:
christundivided said:
Smellin Coffee said:
Sure. I don't know why my wife gets so emotional over "small stuff" at times but I acknowledge that reasonable or not, those feelings are legitimate so I empathize with her emotionally though I don't see or understand from her perspective. Nor does she understand when I cry when the Bears lose! :D

I see.... You become emotional empathic to the point you give up questioning her need to cry.

While its your wife and you handle it every how you want to handle it..... I have never taken that approach. I have no problem bringing out the fact "crying" over something "silly" is really useless. Our mind plays tricks on us. Our emotions play tricks on us. Happens to us all. Regardless of gender or race. I'd rather how someone call me on it than someone say....

I don't feel like you feel but its okay for you to feel that way. Enough your "cry".....

And you are welcome to your feelings on the matter. :D

"Silly" or not, feelings are real. Emotions are real. Hurt is real. I choose to give others some space and give them some leeway and understanding.  That is what I choose to do. That doesn't mean I will let the ones I love wallow in it but IMHO it is simply gracious to give people the freedom to "feel" without my judgement about them.

Often feelings are irrational and based of false assumptions.
I don't discount emotions just 'feel' they should be our servants and not our masters.  :)
 
aleshanee said:
BandGuy said:
If I can forgive the Germans and Russians for how they treated my ancestors, I am pretty sure you can forgive Europeans and Americans for how we treated yours.  Now, man up, grow up, and get over it you big whiny baby!


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ya know.... sometimes i almost forget what an uncompassionate self centered cretin you are.......... .. but then you never fail to speak up and remind me........... do you.... ..  ... nice picture...... is that a self portrait... or one of your kids?............

have a nice day mr bandguy....  don;t choke on your self esteem ..........

I guess I am in good company with Hawkeye Pierce, then.  Margaret Houlihan was always calling him a cretin as well:

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aleshanee said:
graceandtruth said:
I think SC is saying that he can understand why I feel that way though he does not feel it.  It is like my conversation with aleshanee.  I can understand why she is upset that the Buffalo Soldiers who have just been declared human beings and not cattle in December of 1865 would participate in the oppression and genocide of her ancestors though I do not feel the same emotions that she feels about that event.

do you take pride in the fact that some of those buffalo soldiers at wounded knee were among the first u.s. soldiers of african american ancestry to win the medal of honor... for what they did that day?..... how do you feel about the fact that the culture of political correctness in america has caused that particular set of historical facts to be suppressed and not even mentioned in modern history books?
Get em sister!  How bout when the US Gov. Forcibly disbanded the Chickasaw Nation, (incidentally the wealthiest of the 5 civilized nations) in 1906?  My grandfather died before we were allowed to reband. 

Anishinabe

 
Could somebody ring the bell for recess?

There has been some serious schooling going on!
 
Castor Muscular said:
Can someone please tell me who oppressed the Greeks in the past so I know who I'm supposed to hate?

The Romans.  They even squelched the Hellenistic authors and culture.  This puts you in line with the Christians of hating the Roman oppressors - so you have twice the reason to harbor hatred.  They even stole pizza from you folks and called it Italian.  Those dirty.....
 
Binaca Chugger said:
Castor Muscular said:
Can someone please tell me who oppressed the Greeks in the past so I know who I'm supposed to hate?

The Romans.  They even squelched the Hellenistic authors and culture.  This puts you in line with the Christians of hating the Roman oppressors - so you have twice the reason to harbor hatred.  They even stole pizza from you folks and called it Italian.  Those dirty.....

Thanks!  Now I can finally enjoy victim status and blame my former oppressors for everything that goes wrong in my life. 

This is really helpful because the American system of government draws from Roman history.  So I can now claim ROMAN PRIVILEGE!!!  I WANT RESTITUTION!!!!

Not only that, but I'm going to start a militant group called the New Greek Wild Cats, stand around voting booths and intimidate non-Greeks so they don't want to vote. 
 
aleshanee said:
so you complain about others whining.. and then compare yourself to the whiniest actor in the history of tv?.... and an atheist to boot?

He was that... but he was also a very good actor, who played a very sympathetic character that was a big part of what made the show work so well.  8)
 
subllibrm said:
I am an American. Never been to Africa. Of course I should note that my ancestry includes lineage to Germany, England Ireland, Wales, The Netherlands and Scotland. Never been to any of them either. One branch of the family did come through Canada on the way here and I have been there. Blue eyes, brown hair (well it was before it went gray and fell out) fair skin with freckles. I like long walks on the beach and soft music with dinner. I hate phony people and I hope to adopt someday ..... wait, what were talking about?

That's all well and good, but do you like pina coladas or getting caught in the rain?
 
Evelyn said:
subllibrm said:
I am an American. Never been to Africa. Of course I should note that my ancestry includes lineage to Germany, England Ireland, Wales, The Netherlands and Scotland. Never been to any of them either. One branch of the family did come through Canada on the way here and I have been there. Blue eyes, brown hair (well it was before it went gray and fell out) fair skin with freckles. I like long walks on the beach and soft music with dinner. I hate phony people and I hope to adopt someday ..... wait, what were talking about?

That's all well and good, but do you like pina coladas or getting caught in the rain?

Not especially either. Pina coladas are too sweet. And when I get wet, I like to be prepared for it.
 
Izdaari said:
aleshanee said:
so you complain about others whining.. and then compare yourself to the whiniest actor in the history of tv?.... and an atheist to boot?

He was that... but he was also a very good actor, who played a very sympathetic character that was a big part of what made the show work so well.  8)

Even a conservative Christian like me enjoys the show still.  One of my favorites.  Have you ever seen the episode about Captain Tuttle.  That was a great one.
 
Warm rain, on a Hawaiian beach. With a good lid on my giant, frozen Margarita (my preferred substitute for the Pina Colada).  ;D
 
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