I have seen many articles on Facebook lately advising us what we should and should not say to those who are grieving. Many of these look much like this one: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/rev-emily-c-heath/dealing-with-grief-five-t_b_2303910.html
As I read through them sometimes, I cringe to think that some of the theology being promoted in the name of ministering to the grievers is so horribly unbiblical. It made me wonder if there is a good way to minister to those who are grieving without compromising Scriptural doctrine. The following ideas came to mind for me:
1. When someone is going through a time of grieving, they probably don't need a lesson on theology or God's purpose in tragedies.
2. As a matter of fact, they probably don't really need us to say much of anything at all.
3. What they probably need the most is someone to be with them as Christ has been with us, to help them with meals, working out financial problems, child care, making arrangements, and to just listen to them.
4. There will certainly be plenty of time to explore the deeper meaning of the loss of a loved one much later, but for now, perhaps a trip through the Psalms and a reliance on the Holy Spirit to reveal that to them and us would be a better way to go.
Agree? Disagree? Thoughts?
As I read through them sometimes, I cringe to think that some of the theology being promoted in the name of ministering to the grievers is so horribly unbiblical. It made me wonder if there is a good way to minister to those who are grieving without compromising Scriptural doctrine. The following ideas came to mind for me:
1. When someone is going through a time of grieving, they probably don't need a lesson on theology or God's purpose in tragedies.
2. As a matter of fact, they probably don't really need us to say much of anything at all.
3. What they probably need the most is someone to be with them as Christ has been with us, to help them with meals, working out financial problems, child care, making arrangements, and to just listen to them.
4. There will certainly be plenty of time to explore the deeper meaning of the loss of a loved one much later, but for now, perhaps a trip through the Psalms and a reliance on the Holy Spirit to reveal that to them and us would be a better way to go.
Agree? Disagree? Thoughts?