I’ve read the several pages of this thread. Of course, I could be mistaken, but I interpret Mr. Tomato’s post (reply #6 on page 1) a little differently than I have seen from the previous posts.
There's no reason to be shocked. The problem exists not only with the man, but the system. Wherever you have a star, you will have one or more groupies, whether the star is a CEO, a celebrity, a priest or a pastor. This presents a temptation for both the star and the women who crave breaking through to a star. And the bigger the challenge, the more the temptation, which is why there are romance novels about a woman infatuated with a priest.
Here's the difference, IMO. A celebrity will be a celebrity. Not much you can do about that. A business needs a CEO to exist and succeed.
A church or Christian organization doesn't need a star pastor.
Lay aside for a moment that Mr. Tomato advocates for a house church model. What he has highlighted in his post is that “stars†are targeted. It doesn’t matter what sort of star, whether a celebrity, a powerful businessman, an athlete…or a pastor. Certain people will gravitate toward them. Like Mr. Tomato said, stars attract “groupiesâ€. Let me make a few comparisons:
• Celebrities are followed by autograph seekers. Pastors might be asked to sign someone’s Bible.
• Powerful businessmen attract sycophants. Pastors often have congregants who hang on their every word.
• Rock stars attract groupies who are more than willing to have a sexual relationship with them. Well, the same can be said for pastors.
No, pastors are not exempt from the same sorts of temptations/pitfalls that famous/wealthy/popular/powerful people are exposed to. And it’s not limited to only nationally/globally-recognized “starsâ€, either. Even the least-known “local star†is a prize in someone’s world!
So why might a pastor fall into a trap? Well, if the culture of the church is such that the pastor is exalted far above the congregation, he might succumb to the sin of pride. Perhaps this is why, as Mr. Coffee pointed out in reply 22 on page 3, Matthew 23:11 states: â€But he that is greatest among you shall be your servant.†I think Luke 22:26 states it even more strongly: “ye shall not be so: but he that is greatest among you, let him be as the younger; and he that is chief, as he that doth serve.â€
But let’s not put the entire onus onto the pastor. Let’s take these two verses all the way into the practical. Yes, these verses (there are others…I’ve only quoted two) show that a leader is to be a humble servant. As Proverbs 16:18 states, “Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.†But I believe these verses are also an admonition to even the least regarded member of the body…yes, we should respect our pastor as the head of our body, as our leader, as our teacher, but we should not set him on a pedestal as an idol. Let us never forget…he is simply a man, a human, fallible person, and only one part of the body. We do our pastor a disservice if we, by our actions, exalt him above his office…that of a servant! 1Corinthians 12 paints a beautifully clear picture for us, as does Romans 12.
I took the scenic route to get back to the beginning of my thought: Yes, pastors have fallen, and, unfortunately, will continue to fall. They certainly do bear the responsibility for their own actions…but we, as congregants, many times throughout the ages, have “pushed†them down the path to their own destruction because we have set them up as idols in our own hearts!
And that is how I interpreted Mr. Tomato’s post. Whew! I need a nap.