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it sounds good in theory..... and it would be nice if it was true that schaap will now be less powerful and less dangerous to girls.... ........ but if he is like other sex offenders then it;s not just the fact he held a position of power that made him able to seduce teenage girls and other women that he saw as easily influenced....i don;t know him and i only saw that one disusting video of him preaching a sermon.... but it;s probably his personality off the podium and the ability to talk smooth and with confidence... to convince people to go along with him and do what he wants..... that makes him truly dangerous....
the fact he continued to hold his position as pastor after preaching that polished arrow sermon... after all the evidence of what he was should have been clear to everybody in that church.. .. and the fact he continues to have supporters today and people still willing to defend him.... and who seem more concerned with his "restoration" than they are with the welfare of the girl he abused - speaks volumes about him and also about the church that enabled him.. indicates he is not done with being an offender yet.. ..and says he will continue to find opportunites to offend...
quite oftten sex offenders become even more creepy and even more dangerous once they are released from prison.... especially if they feel their sentence was unjust.... ...some of them adopt a "i paid my dues to society" attitude and even start to believe that society... and even the people they abused in the past... now owe them something...... .. that;s how it was with my mother... . she fit the entire profile of what i outlined above perfectly.... once out of prison she called me on the phone and within minutes i was back on the hook again....even crossed an ocean to move back in with her..... but thankfully only for just long enough to see she had not changed... ..
and that reveals something about former victims that needs to be realized by churches and addressed ..... once victims have succumbed to someone like schaap and like my mother was.. they will always be in danger of submitting to them again.... thankfully due to being raised by a family in my teenage years that taught me how to fight back, i did not give in like i had done before and got away from my mom.... .. but how often do churches that have had problems with predatory pastors do that?.... how often do they actually train young women how to recognize and resist advances from people like schaap?..... .. all i have ever seen them do is mull over what might be happening to their dear beloved pastor in the lockup... and wondering what he will do once he is released..... .....
none of that gives people like me who have been there in the victims shoes any confidence........ ..granted the abuse i suffered, and my mothers case and imprisonment was over 2 decades prior to what occured with schaap... and did not involve a church or a pastor.... ... but sex offenders are the same all over the world... no matter where you find them... their enablers are the same as well...... unfortunatey absence of any repentence or change in them after prison is the same too....... .
it sounds good in theory..... and it would be nice if it was true that schaap will now be less powerful and less dangerous to girls.... ........ but if he is like other sex offenders then it;s not just the fact he held a position of power that made him able to seduce teenage girls and other women that he saw as easily influenced....i don;t know him and i only saw that one disusting video of him preaching a sermon.... but it;s probably his personality off the podium and the ability to talk smooth and with confidence... to convince people to go along with him and do what he wants..... that makes him truly dangerous....
the fact he continued to hold his position as pastor after preaching that polished arrow sermon... after all the evidence of what he was should have been clear to everybody in that church.. .. and the fact he continues to have supporters today and people still willing to defend him.... and who seem more concerned with his "restoration" than they are with the welfare of the girl he abused - speaks volumes about him and also about the church that enabled him.. indicates he is not done with being an offender yet.. ..and says he will continue to find opportunites to offend...
quite oftten sex offenders become even more creepy and even more dangerous once they are released from prison.... especially if they feel their sentence was unjust.... ...some of them adopt a "i paid my dues to society" attitude and even start to believe that society... and even the people they abused in the past... now owe them something...... .. that;s how it was with my mother... . she fit the entire profile of what i outlined above perfectly.... once out of prison she called me on the phone and within minutes i was back on the hook again....even crossed an ocean to move back in with her..... but thankfully only for just long enough to see she had not changed... ..
and that reveals something about former victims that needs to be realized by churches and addressed ..... once victims have succumbed to someone like schaap and like my mother was.. they will always be in danger of submitting to them again.... thankfully due to being raised by a family in my teenage years that taught me how to fight back, i did not give in like i had done before and got away from my mom.... .. but how often do churches that have had problems with predatory pastors do that?.... how often do they actually train young women how to recognize and resist advances from people like schaap?..... .. all i have ever seen them do is mull over what might be happening to their dear beloved pastor in the lockup... and wondering what he will do once he is released..... .....
none of that gives people like me who have been there in the victims shoes any confidence........ ..granted the abuse i suffered, and my mothers case and imprisonment was over 2 decades prior to what occured with schaap... and did not involve a church or a pastor.... ... but sex offenders are the same all over the world... no matter where you find them... their enablers are the same as well...... unfortunatey absence of any repentence or change in them after prison is the same too....... .
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