That is a shame about Sam. What was his background? Was he IFBx?
Here's another quick story from a vacation church we attended. Once again this one stems from me not doing my research ahead of time well enough for a "like faith" church. We were on vacation and the Poconos and decided to go to the nearest Baptist Church to our resort condo. I was pretty staunch KJVo at the time, so of course you can imagine my consternation when I got sat down and pulled out the Bible in the pew and it was an NIV.Well, the first thing that went wrong was their music was, <gasp> CONTEMPORARY!.... but worse than that, they sang 10 or 12 songs. Everybody knows a Baptist Church you only sing two or three hymns and then the offertory.
We finally got through that and then the sermon commenced. Keep in mind that the culture here is far from Appalachia or the Bible belt South. We are in the Northeast, Pennsylvania particularly, not far from New York. The pastor began preaching and things were pretty quiet in the church but after a while it was getting good and me being an amen kind of guy, I let out a modest subdued "amen". The preacher immediately pauses for a split second and looked my way and then resumed the sermon. Thought it was weird but, whatever. He really got rolling after that. Don't get me wrong, he wasn't spitting and shouting and screaming. No hellfire and brimstone. But it was solid exegesis and exposition, a good sermon, so I let out another amen, this one a little bit more robust but no shouting or excessive volume.The preacher stopped again looked over my way and said " yeah, amen brother, I'm glad somebody in here this morning is getting it"
.... Awkward! Wasn't too much longer after that in the sermon wound down and we slithered out of there before the congregation stoned me for shaming them!
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Brother Sam was a pastor for the GARBC and the American Baptists. He was divorced and remarried (not necessarily a problem for me) and was having a lot of trouble in some areas. He seemed to always think that everyone was out to get him, which wasn't true, but he felt that way. He lacked confidence. But, that's nothing to disqualify him from anything either. The last time I had communication with him was about two years ago, and he was very bitter about some things and just couldn't let some things go. It was sad, really. But, I told him that he just needed to depend more on the Lord and less on his own power. I hope he listened.
I know how you feel about finding churches of like faith and practice. Sometimes it's hard to do. We will visit churches if we know they're sound but we don't usually find them.