Mrs. Hyles and the kids

Justice not sure how you know she suffered great loss they divorced and the court would have to make sure Cindy had money. Cindy is a licensed therapist. She moved to NC to be close to her daughter. Then she met a man who was married several times. She seems very happy. Which she deserves to be.

dh is trash and his day of justice is coming..........
Sherry, she has told how she worked as nurses' aid in NC while living there. Nurse's aids do not earn a lot. She has spoken of how she was nearly destitute in those days. I would think if Beverly had $ to share with Cindy, she should/would have. Cindy and her husband now live a very modest life. Cindy works a job (a receptionist) that isn't very lucrative financially. I can find nothing that leads me to believe that any of those children received money from either of their parents.

As far as their divorce, I don't think there was much to divide. I suspect that Jack "ratholed" some money before he went to prison. Money that Cindy knew nothing about and was not traceable or admitted in the divorce proceeding. Remember, they divorced after he went to prison. What's a divorce court going to threaten him with if he doesn't disclose his assets? Prison? When you're already doing hard time (and he did a decade) another year or two isn't much of a threat. Quite often, spouses such as she, simply want AWAY from the man, upon realizing the truth of what had been going on.
 
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I'm pretty sure their house should have been paid for... and nearly certain she bought a brand new house when she moved to NC.... perhaps her pastor in NC could have helped her out :) :)
 
After a pretty much a lifetime of IFB, I decided to go the SBC route. I lost all desire to “make it work” in IFB.
I completely understand. My wife and I have been members of five different IFB churches. In one the pastor was molesting kids in the church. Three others the pastors covered and hid men molesting kids. The fifth tried telling me I needed to quit my job because I was gone all the time and said, if I’d just downsized my lifestyle I wouldn’t need to be in the oil field and make the money I was making. And that I needed to sell my house and live in a trailer. 😂 true story.

(sigh) we were tired. And like you, decided to go a different route. It actually helped our marriage not that we had a bad marriage in the IFB but it was less stressful not having to keep appearances up.

This is our experience in 5 IFB churches. My experience tells me, it’s wide spread.
 
I completely understand. My wife and I have been members of five different IFB churches. In one the pastor was molesting kids in the church. Three others the pastors covered and hid men molesting kids. The fifth tried telling me I needed to quit my job because I was gone all the time and said, if I’d just downsized my lifestyle I wouldn’t need to be in the oil field and make the money I was making. And that I needed to sell my house and live in a trailer. 😂 true story.

(sigh) we were tired. And like you, decided to go a different route. It actually helped our marriage not that we had a bad marriage in the IFB but it was less stressful not having to keep appearances up.

This is our experience in 5 IFB churches. My experience tells me, it’s wide spread.
Humans are humans, and I think all churches have had these issues, but I think the IFB model lends itself to the perpetuity of the problem because there’s no real human accountability by default of each church’s independence.
 
Humans are humans, and I think all churches have had these issues, but I think the IFB model lends itself to the perpetuity of the problem because there’s no real human accountability by default of each church’s independence.
Humans are humans? Kinda sounds to me like you’re giving them a pass? Like eh, hey the dude got drunk last night give him some grace. Sorry I don’t feel that way about organizations that look at it that way. No, they didn’t get drunk last night they harmed children and that child will never be the same. And these churches treat pedophiles like they would someone that got drunk last night.

I may be misunderstanding you and if I am I apologize.

As far as I know the church we attend now has never covered and hid pedophiles.

The church we attend now the pastor in a sermon said a couple years ago. If you’re here and are on the Pedophile list there are men here with your picture in their back pocket and they have eyes on you. Your gonna sit on the back row and when the service is over leave don’t stay leave. You’re not gonna take the offering you’re not gonna volunteer in any way shape or form. If I’m making you uncomfortable… good. Just know men are watching your every move.

See, I’ve never not one time heard something like this in an IFB church, ever.
 
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Humans are humans? Kinda sounds to me like you’re giving them a pass? Like eh, hey the dude got drunk last night give him some grace. Sorry I don’t feel that way about organizations that look at it that way. No, they didn’t get drunk last night they harmed children and that child will never be the same. And these churches treat pedophiles like they would someone that got drunk last night.
Wow, you really twisted and misinterpreted my post in a huge way. Not cool. Maybe you need to go back and reread my post again in its entirety. If you still don’t understand, I probably can’t explain it any better.
 
Wow, you really twisted and misinterpreted my post in a huge way. Not cool. Maybe you need to go back and reread my post again in its entirety. If you still don’t understand, I probably can’t explain it any better.
Reread your right my bad. But if you did say what I thought you said I would’ve had some good points though……
 
Reread your right my bad. But if you did say what I thought you said I would’ve had some good points though……
“Humans are humans” just means that sins will be committed regardless of denomination, but my point was that there’s a lack of accountability within the IFB model. Think of a store in which you have an issue and you can call corporate for it to be resolved, but if you have a problem with a store, and the manager is also the owner of the store, you’re kind of screwed from getting a problem fixed. The latter is the IFB.
 
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