bruinboy said:
The enabler has assumed room temperature.
Is it best to mock the dead? I have never been to Hammond Baptist but was involved in an extreme form of the "Independent Fundamental Baptist" culture. The church I started attending in Beaufort, SC while in the Marine Corps would make Jack Hyles seem like a moderate. The pastor was the "final authority" in spite of insisting the King James Bible was. There is a
cult mentality among many in that movement. A few examples.
Men wearing
wedding bands was forbidden. No celebrations of
birthdays of any kind. No observances of
"Christmas" or
"Easter" and we even had literature that those who did were probably going to hell. Any woman wearing any kind of
boots were mocked. One man had a sister who lived in Montana who was involved in an automobile accident and requested prayer for her but had to point out that she was
wearing boots at the time of the accident. I invited another Marine to the church and he noticed that
every man in the service was wearing boots. He leaned over to me and jokingly said that he was "wearing boots in the Spirit."
I went to a funeral where an infant died shortly after birth and at the cemetery as the "pastor" was giving the final words before they laid the baby in the grave told everyone there that the child was dead because of the "sins of its parents." I had no idea of what he was talking about.
He had one sermon entitled
"Men with Long Hair, Women Wearing Pants and the Civil Rights Movement." In that service was a Black man who looked like he had been drinking sitting towards the back. One thing that Black man heard while seeking spiritual things was the following statement, and I quote. "Some Black people are going to hell because they can't stand to be called Nig*ers ; racial pride."
We were street preaching close to Christmas time and one of the young men while standing in the back of a pickup truck boldly proclaiming the gospel saw Santa Claus passing out candy to the children. He pointed his finger at Santa and proclaimed at the top of his voice, "Santa Claus is a picture of the Devil! Of course Santa was offended and shouted back "I'll kill you!" To which he replied, "God won't let you!" There never was a dull moment.
I could go on an on. I was so brainwashed by the time I got out of the Marine Corps that only by the grace of God did I leave the "King James Only" movement. I was sincere but sincerely wrong.
Mrs. Hyles was married to a man that was definitely a cult figure and I do feel sympathy for people caught up in things like that. I was in a service where the pastor was talking about marriage and pointed out that if a woman is beaten up and runs home to mama she should send her back to her abusive husband because she promised to never leave him in her wedding vows. She may have been an "enabler" to some and will give an account just like you and I will some day but I believe she was brainwashed as many in those circles are. I'm sure you are Mr. perfect! To mock her after her passing is
wrong!