Bruh said:
One would have to assume that admin, has never had first hand experience when it comes to alcohol destroying a family member...
...I have seen alcohol destroy family members to the point that I despise alcohol. And you better believe that I tell my children the stories of their uncles and how they have to sit in jail and their children will not have a daddy for a year or so...And you better believe that I tell them that if they wouldn't of had the first sip they would not be in jail.
I also teach them that we are not better than them because that could be us as well.
I have learned that experience WILL change a persons view on most anything.
So you've got a brother in jail "because of alcohol" and so that personal anecdote is supposed to convince others?
I buried my 16-yr old brother after he burned alive when he was rear-ended by a drunk who was free after getting charged with two previous DUIs. At the time, I was a reasonably hard-core tee-totaller to the point that I was serving as a youth counselor for anti-drug/alcohol/tobacco retreats for church kids. Since then, I've come to see what Scripture actually teaches about alcohol (along with a host of other things).
So I guess my experience changed my views towards alcohol...I'm fine with it in moderation where once I wasn't. But, I guess my experience of burying a sibling who had been burned alive isn't as serious yours was, so that must be why I changed my views from the extra-Biblical ones you still hold.
Funny thing about the freedom we have in Christ as believers...so many of our spiritual kin are attracted to chains.