graceandtruth said:
How about another experiment. Why don't you guys print up this thread the gz thread and let your African-American friends ( I know you all have some

) to read it. Choose some "friends" that are not affiliated with the IFB churches (It should be easy). Watch their facial expression as they read. Ask them what they honestly think about the exchange. Then invite them to come and post their opinion of both threads on the thread. You may be surprised.
CU I actually may have lost a friend over it yesterday. But a friend who is not willing to empathize is not a friend at all.
BC you are the only one talking about being a victim.
You shouldn't have lost a friend over something so trivial. Friendship works both ways GT. BOTH WAYS. Just because you're unwilling to have a friend that doesn't have a "black guilt" complex, doesn't mean your "former friend" isn't right. You're really wallowing in this.
I don't expect you to agree with me. I do believe you should respect the opposing view. I have grown extremely tired of blanket racism charges being thrown around. I'm not going to pull any punches and tell you its all everyone else's problem. Deal with your own. We all have problems. We all have problems with interacting with various cultures and personalities. I have it. You have it. Don't pretend your perfect and beyond reproach.
Your attitude reminds of those in
Luk 7:32 They are like unto children sitting in the marketplace, and calling one to another, and saying, We have piped unto you, and ye have not danced; we have mourned to you, and ye have not wept.