RAIDER said:
On another scenario that could possible fit - what if you were a cake decorator and a skin head wanted you to make a cake with a swastika on it. Would you do it?
I've thought a couple days about this. The swastika is an intentional symbol of hate and offense to others. I don't see that I would make that cake but I would offer other ideas that did not include that symbol.
Sub make mention of making a T-shirt with "F-U" on it. I would put this in the same category, as that the shirt is meant to be offensive to those who read it.
In general, the purpose of a gay wedding is not to be offensive so that is how I would differentiate between the illustrations.
If people are offended by that, it is of their own choice (and why would they be at a gay wedding anyway?). I am against war as an offensive threat. In that realm, I would not turn down a military cake for a military family with guns and ammo decorations on it. Their intent is not to be offensive but to recognize the life of the participant. And by-in-large, military in general is not offensive to the general public, though it may be to some leftists.