I neither lied nor judged Qwerty. Those are your own sins you are describing.
In over fourteen years of lurking, I noticed that a few posters would judge, speak evil, scorn, etc., and they would drive off other posters. A few would fight back, and several other posters would join in to support sin. The posters who objected to sin would generally make the same three mistakes:
1) Defend themselves. Since judgers really do see their own sins in someone else, that can't work.
2) Point out that the judgers were not being used by God. Since those who judge others are also judging God´s law (without obeying it) they didn't accept God's standards of success, so that didn't work.
3) Object to the lack of love. The judgers and scorners claimed that anyone who objected to their lack of love was not showing love, so that didn't work.
Those people drove off a lot of posters and readers, and that is one reason why the FFF went from a major to a minor site.