Billy Makes His Case

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I am friends with Billy on FB. He posted this and I asked and received his permission to post it here. I find his thoughts compelling though I doubt that everyone here will agree.

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I want my independent Baptist church back! (actually I don’t)
I wish that the fringe militant IFBers that stole a wonderful movement would give it back, but I know that isn’t going to happen. The Independent Baptist Church movement I grew up in is sadly lying on its death bed and the death rattles are apparent and for the most part those left in the movement don’t seem to care. What happened? How did it die? Why aren’t those left not willing to try and save it?

My IFB were trend setters:

1. The contemporary church movement of its day, WHAT?? You want me to believe that Independent Baptist Churches were contemporary? You bet they were back in the day!
They were trend setters when it came to music. The SBC had become stale, liberal, high pocketed in its worship service and along came these laid back, piano playing, southern gospel singing, amen saying, no robe wearing, store front meeting Independent Baptist and in just a few short decades became one of the most explosive movements around.
They were trend setters when it came to the style of worship. Our services were much less formal than those in the SBC, no coat and tie…no problem, we even had and I can’t believe I’m going to say this…clapping in our services. Our preachers were animated in the pulpit (some to a fault) but our services were like a breath of fresh air to those coming out or formal ritualistic churches.
2. They were trend setters when it came to evangelism: I was a bus kid…not ashamed to say it. IFB filled churches all across this country with little brats like me, teaching them the Word of God. Be honest, how many of you ever heard of the bus ministry outside of Independent Baptist Churches? I’m sure there were some, but this ministry was cutting edge and exploded across this country. What about door to door personal evangelism…wasn’t that what the pastor did?
3. They were trend setters in church architect. Most SBC churches down south were building these huge massive structures or concrete and steel, but they weren’t very user friendly. They were BIG and beautiful but not functional not large crowds nor were they children friendly. IFB churches started in store fronts, never were they the big draw for the wealthy therefore their finances were not of those in the SBC and they had bigger crowds, so they built beautiful yet functional building, many time these building were just metal building with a brick façade front. Must lower cost in most cases, and the emphasis was practical, usable, affordable buildings.
4. They were trend setters in education. Yes, I know the rise of Christian Education was due to the desegregation of our public school, I get it, but the IFB was filling a need for affordable, Christ centered education (granted not always good education) the public schools were failing and the IFB movement answered and filled that need.

Ok, so how did the Independent Baptist Church movement go from being on the cutting edge to on its death bed in 50 or so years? I’m going to list several, I’m sure you could add your own but these are just a few that resonate personally with me.

1. Failure to adapt.
Technology isn’t a cuss word, people change, styles change, cultures change. Change is constant, yet many in the IFB brag that they are “Old Path” Baptist. This is funny since the movement isn’t but a few decades old. I’m almost half way through my 50’s but hopefully I don’t dress, walk, talk, or look like I did in the 70’s..cause styles change. At 55 I started a new career with much younger co-workers that know wayyy more about spreadsheets than I....so I either changed and adapted or sit at home. Why is a 1950’s worship style service right and a new contemporary service is wrong? Is it the screen? Electric instruments? If I may say it this way; IFB churches are using quill pens in an IPad world.
2. Failure to lead.
The Pope’s of IFB…and yes there are popes in Greenville, Pensacola, Lancaster, not so much in Hammond or Murfreesboro anymore, but they still exist all over the country in “fellowships” and “preacher meeting” and they give the marching orders to the flock, and these talking heads go back and give it to those in the pews. If a pope says it’s ok (you name the activity) then it’s ok for the flock.
3. Failure to “branch” out. We often kid down south that our family tree is only a trunk, no branches, and that is what has happened in the IFB church, the average new member in the average IFB church is an old member of another IFB church. They are just swapping members!
4. Failure to love. Today, IFB preachers are known for what they are against instead of what they are for. They preach the wrath of God and never the love of God. To be honest they have become hateful. I remember sitting in church on the first row watching JRR preach, and seeing tears stroll down those cheeks. I only see red faces screaming at me today…so sad that they have to be so mean.
5. Failure to connect. In my day it was ok for an IFB preacher to share the platform with a SB preacher or Nazarene preacher. When was the last time you saw a Nazarene preacher preaching at an IFB church? Not going to happen. No cooperation with other Bible Believing churches or Christians.
6. Militant beliefs:
I can show you pictures from my IFB school way back in the 70’s with ladies wearing pants (oh those evil pants) When did it become sinful for a lady to wear a modest pair of pants?
When did the KJV become the KJB? JRR called those that believe the 1611 KJV to be inspired Word of God heretics. When did the IFB start breaking fellowship with those that don’t hold to that view. When did the IFB start DEMANDING that the KJV be used in the pulpit? BTW: Back in the 70’s Jack Hyles didn’t believe in the KJB either.
Standards: I don’t smoke, drink, or chew so that makes me a better Christian than you. When did the IFB become so legalist that one of the hallmarks of our Baptist heritage that of individual soul liberty is thrown out the door.

Playing the role of victim: When confronted about why the IFB movement is dying you will generally get this response:
If we allowed “rock music” in our church we would grow large too.
The IFB is dying because we have “standards” and folks don’t like our “standards” so they won’t fit into our church.
Or my favorite “we’re the remnant” left until Jesus comes back.
Always blaming and never looking within.
So, the IFB is dying and it’s dying on a hill of its own choosing.
What is the first thing you should do if you have dug yourself into a hole and you can’t get out?
QUIT DIGGING!
The answer isn’t found in Bible Version Wars
It’s not about long hair or pants on women, or smoking or any other man-made standard not found in the Bible.
IT’S ABOUT A PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH OUR SAVIOR.
Quit majoring on silly stuff and start loving on people again and maybe the movement can be saved.
 
I'm sorry I don't know who this Billy is, but I find myself agreeing with him.

I think he speaks for people like me.
 
bgwilkinson said:
I'm sorry I don't know who this Billy is, but I find myself agreeing with him.

I think he speaks for people like me.

He has a account here but doesn't post much. On the previous versions he was quite active. Many go-rounds with Alayman. They even had pet names for each other.  :o


:)
 
Hi Billy!!!!



Another X-Xer trying to schedule the funeral of IFBaptist churches.

They buy flowers, build a casket, rent a funeral home, type the obituary and then they all show up to cluck their tongues and mourn (yeah right) the loss of what once was....

Problem is, no corpse ever shows up.  The "corpse" is too busy soul-winning, supporting missions, running bus routes, planting churches, discpling converts, and standing up to apostasy to attend these pretend funerals. 

Instead of mourning the death of a movement, be honest and mourn the death of your spirituality.  Remember when you used to actually serve God and live for Him?  Remember light and life?  Remember actually making a difference???

Nothings dead.  Repent of your compromise, reclaim separation from the world, find your ole SW New Testament, grab a handful of gospel tracts and go win someone to CHRIST.  Get off your evangelical coffee shop stool and get back on a Bus Route and gather up some kids and bring them to church. 

Or don't.  Plan your pretend funeral and continue living your pretend Christian life....


Carry on....
 
Frag said:
Hi Billy!!!!



Another X-Xer trying to schedule the funeral of IFBaptist churches.

They buy flowers, build a casket, rent a funeral home, type the obituary and then they all show up to cluck their tongues and mourn (yeah right) the loss of what once was....

Problem is, no corpse ever shows up.  The "corpse" is too busy soul-winning, supporting missions, running bus routes, planting churches, discpling converts, and standing up to apostasy to attend these pretend funerals. 

Instead of mourning the death of a movement, be honest and mourn the death of your spirituality.  Remember when you used to actually serve God and live for Him?  Remember light and life?  Remember actually making a difference???

Nothings dead.  Repent of your compromise, reclaim separation from the world, find your ole SW New Testament, grab a handful of gospel tracts and go win someone to CHRIST.  Get off your evangelical coffee shop stool and get back on a Bus Route and gather up some kids and bring them to church. 

Or don't.  Plan your pretend funeral and continue living your pretend Christian life....


Carry on....

Me thinks that that THIS is exactly the type of attitude Billy is talking about. They talk about how great things are and how busy they are (while nobody else is) and that the ifb is not dying. Then they have websites like Independent Baptist that says that one of their aims is to once again bring back what they had back in the 70's.
 
Frag said:
Hi Billy!!!!



Another X-Xer trying to schedule the funeral of IFBaptist churches.

They buy flowers, build a casket, rent a funeral home, type the obituary and then they all show up to cluck their tongues and mourn (yeah right) the loss of what once was....

Problem is, no corpse ever shows up.  The "corpse" is too busy soul-winning, supporting missions, running bus routes, planting churches, discpling converts, and standing up to apostasy to attend these pretend funerals. 

Instead of mourning the death of a movement, be honest and mourn the death of your spirituality.  Remember when you used to actually serve God and live for Him?  Remember light and life?  Remember actually making a difference???

Nothings dead.  Repent of your compromise, reclaim separation from the world, find your ole SW New Testament, grab a handful of gospel tracts and go win someone to CHRIST.  Get off your evangelical coffee shop stool and get back on a Bus Route and gather up some kids and bring them to church. 

Or don't.  Plan your pretend funeral and continue living your pretend Christian life....


Carry on....

Perfect illustration of numbers 4, 5 and 6 from the article.

Too myoptic to see it.
 
Funny thing is, when I asked Billy's permission I mentioned how much Frag would enjoy it.

Ring the Billy bell and here comes Pavlov's Frag!  :D
 
Frag said:
Hi Billy!!!!



Another X-Xer trying to schedule the funeral of IFBaptist churches.

They buy flowers, build a casket, rent a funeral home, type the obituary and then they all show up to cluck their tongues and mourn (yeah right) the loss of what once was....

Problem is, no corpse ever shows up.  The "corpse" is too busy soul-winning, supporting missions, running bus routes, planting churches, discpling converts, and standing up to apostasy to attend these pretend funerals. 

Instead of mourning the death of a movement, be honest and mourn the death of your spirituality.  Remember when you used to actually serve God and live for Him?  Remember light and life?  Remember actually making a difference???

Nothings dead.  Repent of your compromise, reclaim separation from the world, find your ole SW New Testament, grab a handful of gospel tracts and go win someone to CHRIST.  Get off your evangelical coffee shop stool and get back on a Bus Route and gather up some kids and bring them to church. 

Or don't.  Plan your pretend funeral and continue living your pretend Christian life....


Carry on....


I can't remember the last time I actually saw a church BUS running around town on Sunday morning or the last time someone knocked on my door soul-huntin'. Thirty years ago it was common to see several buses from one church around a city.

Seen a church van every once in awhile but mostly taking a group of church members to an event like a concert or another church to visit and had the Jehovah Witnesses and Mormons come to the door every great once in awhile but not the Fundamentalists. They must be doing a bang-up job somewhere....just not in the last three communities I have lived. Hmmm...
 
Frag said:
Another X-Xer trying to schedule the funeral of IFBaptist churches.

The last people to realize that they are already dead are zombies.
 
Frag said:
Hi Billy!!!!



Another X-Xer trying to schedule the funeral of IFBaptist churches.

They buy flowers, build a casket, rent a funeral home, type the obituary and then they all show up to cluck their tongues and mourn (yeah right) the loss of what once was....

Problem is, no corpse ever shows up.  The "corpse" is too busy soul-winning, supporting missions, running bus routes, planting churches, discpling converts, and standing up to apostasy to attend these pretend funerals. 

Instead of mourning the death of a movement, be honest and mourn the death of your spirituality.  Remember when you used to actually serve God and live for Him?  Remember light and life?  Remember actually making a difference???

Nothings dead.  Repent of your compromise, reclaim separation from the world, find your ole SW New Testament, grab a handful of gospel tracts and go win someone to CHRIST.  Get off your evangelical coffee shop stool and get back on a Bus Route and gather up some kids and bring them to church. 

Or don't.  Plan your pretend funeral and continue living your pretend Christian life....


Carry on....

Amen
 
Tom Brennan said:
Frag said:
Hi Billy!!!!



Another X-Xer trying to schedule the funeral of IFBaptist churches.

They buy flowers, build a casket, rent a funeral home, type the obituary and then they all show up to cluck their tongues and mourn (yeah right) the loss of what once was....

Problem is, no corpse ever shows up.  The "corpse" is too busy soul-winning, supporting missions, running bus routes, planting churches, discpling converts, and standing up to apostasy to attend these pretend funerals. 

Instead of mourning the death of a movement, be honest and mourn the death of your spirituality.  Remember when you used to actually serve God and live for Him?  Remember light and life?  Remember actually making a difference???

Nothings dead.  Repent of your compromise, reclaim separation from the world, find your ole SW New Testament, grab a handful of gospel tracts and go win someone to CHRIST.  Get off your evangelical coffee shop stool and get back on a Bus Route and gather up some kids and bring them to church. 

Or don't.  Plan your pretend funeral and continue living your pretend Christian life....


Carry on....

Amen

So are you and Frag saying that there was nothing of value nor anything truthful in what Billy wrote?

Is his history wrong? IFB wasn't cutting edge? There was never anything contemporary about IFB? The attitude about worship style didn't differ from the SBC?

Do you honestly believe that the only churches doing the work of the ministry are IFB? Or that the IFB model you follow is the only acceptable one before God?
 
Billy is a decent guy.

Even decent guys can beat dead horses. 

I came into an IFB church in the late 70's after I was saved.  My IFB pastor used to analyze (bash) the SBC movement that so many came out of a decade earlier.  I came out of Church of Christ so I knew nothing of the history of the IFB's, but I was intelligent enough to think it was immature of my pastor to waste time denouncing a movement with which he was no longer associated. Fast-forward to the present when former IFB's bash their heritage.  Their behavior (bashing the movement of their heritage) is just like my first IFB pastor.  Oh, the irony. 
 
JrChurch said:
Billy is a decent guy.

Even decent guys can beat dead horses. 

I came into an IFB church in the late 70's after I was saved.  My IFB pastor used to analyze (bash) the SBC movement that so many came out of a decade earlier.  I came out of Church of Christ so I knew nothing of the history of the IFB's, but I was intelligent enough to think it was immature of my pastor to waste time denouncing a movement with which he was no longer associated. Fast-forward to the present when former IFB's bash their heritage.  Their behavior (bashing the movement of their heritage) is just like my first IFB pastor.  Oh, the irony.

I didn't see it as bashing as much as a lament.

If I could sum up what Billy and all the others are saying it is "adapt or die". We are to  minister in the context of the world we live in, not the one we used to live in. Our culture is changing at a breakneck pace and the church needs to have some plan (and willingness) to adjust to those changes. Ozzie and Harriet are dead. We can't go back. We can't stand still. We must be aware of the world views of those we would seek to reach. Much as the missionary has to "figure out" the culture of the people group he is working with and tailor the gospel presentation accordingly, we have to understand the people group that America is becoming.

The best comparative example I can think of is the Amish. They have diligently clung to the old ways and are now a cultural curiosity. Not dead but certainly not impacting the world around them. IFB is becoming, by choice and design, an ingrown sect.

At least that is what I see from the outside looking in.

********************

But something in what you wrote kind of lit a light for me. I have hung around here for quite a while never quite getting the whole "SBC is bad" thing. Being from Michigan, SBC churches are pretty rare to begin with. Add to that the fact that GARBC and IFCA (the two associations I am most familiar with) came out of the Northern (American) Baptist. Now I understand a little better why the old IFB turf wars still being fought don't make a lot of sense to me.
 
Just John said:
Frag said:
Hi Billy!!!!



Another X-Xer trying to schedule the funeral of IFBaptist churches.

They buy flowers, build a casket, rent a funeral home, type the obituary and then they all show up to cluck their tongues and mourn (yeah right) the loss of what once was....

Problem is, no corpse ever shows up.  The "corpse" is too busy soul-winning, supporting missions, running bus routes, planting churches, discpling converts, and standing up to apostasy to attend these pretend funerals. 

Instead of mourning the death of a movement, be honest and mourn the death of your spirituality.  Remember when you used to actually serve God and live for Him?  Remember light and life?  Remember actually making a difference???

Nothings dead.  Repent of your compromise, reclaim separation from the world, find your ole SW New Testament, grab a handful of gospel tracts and go win someone to CHRIST.  Get off your evangelical coffee shop stool and get back on a Bus Route and gather up some kids and bring them to church. 

Or don't.  Plan your pretend funeral and continue living your pretend Christian life....


Carry on....


I can't remember the last time I actually saw a church BUS running around town on Sunday morning or the last time someone knocked on my door soul-huntin'. Thirty years ago it was common to see several buses from one church around a city.

Seen a church van every once in awhile but mostly taking a group of church members to an event like a concert or another church to visit and had the Jehovah Witnesses and Mormons come to the door every great once in awhile but not the Fundamentalists. They must be doing a bang-up job somewhere....just not in the last three communities I have lived. Hmmm...

Amen. Big, bad FBCH must not like the South Hammond area too much. They never seem to come a knockin' on my door. JW's do quite a bit, and leave their literature stuck to my door when I don't answer it, but the FBCH Baptists don't seem to come around. :(

LOL!! :D

:)
 
subllibrm said:
If I could sum up what Billy and all the others are saying it is "adapt or die"...the missionary has to "figure out" the culture of the people group he is working with and tailor the gospel presentation accordingly, we have to understand the people group that America is becoming.

Good thoughts but I would add that we need to engage the culture (like Paul and the 1st century brethren) without becoming the culture. What that looks like is the debate.

subllibrm said:
But something in what you wrote kind of lit a light for me. I have hung around here for quite a while never quite getting the whole "SBC is bad" thing. Being from Michigan, SBC churches are pretty rare to begin with. Add to that the fact that GARBC and IFCA (the two associations I am most familiar with) came out of the Northern (American) Baptist. Now I understand a little better why the old IFB turf wars still being fought don't make a lot of sense to me.

Yeah, it can be surreal out of first person context. In some areas, it seems like one of the old science fiction story plots where a group of people have been fighting a war so long that they can't remember why they are fighting or who the enemy really is.

If you want to get a real, historically accurate (if not a little skewed) picture of what the whole "SBC is bad thing" is about, try to find a copy of Dr. David O. Beale's "S.B.C., House on the Sand? - Critical Issues for Southern Baptist" from BJU Press - 1985. It sure makes interesting reading though most of his conclusions are not accurate today in light of the the last 25 years of events.
 
aleshanee said:
Just John said:
I can't remember the last time I actually saw a church BUS running around town on Sunday morning or the last time someone knocked on my door soul-huntin'. Thirty years ago it was common to see several buses from one church around a city.

Seen a church van every once in awhile but mostly taking a group of church members to an event like a concert or another church to visit and had the Jehovah Witnesses and Mormons come to the door every great once in awhile but not the Fundamentalists. They must be doing a bang-up job somewhere....just not in the last three communities I have lived. Hmmm...

i mean no offense.... but ... who is going out to reach people in the communities you have lived in?......... as someone who was saved through a baptist church bus ministry as a child i find it pretty disheartening to know that kind of thing is no longer being done....... and not even some variation of it........  even sadder to know that ex-baptists .. for all of their criticism of what the ifbs did wrong.... aren;t stepping up to fill in the gaps of one of the things the ifbs did right... .. and which many say is now faltering.. some even appearing to find amusement in it;s demise....  :-\......do they think it was not a worthwhile ministry?......... 

It would appear the JWs and Mormon are filling in the gaps.
 
By politics, do you mean church politics or pure politics?



[oops! moderator note: I hit the dreaded "modify" button instead of "quote." This post has been restored.]
 
aleshanee said:
Just John said:
I can't remember the last time I actually saw a church BUS running around town on Sunday morning or the last time someone knocked on my door soul-huntin'. Thirty years ago it was common to see several buses from one church around a city.

Seen a church van every once in awhile but mostly taking a group of church members to an event like a concert or another church to visit and had the Jehovah Witnesses and Mormons come to the door every great once in awhile but not the Fundamentalists. They must be doing a bang-up job somewhere....just not in the last three communities I have lived. Hmmm...

i mean no offense.... but ... who is going out to reach people in the communities you have lived in?......... as someone who was saved through a baptist church bus ministry as a child i find it pretty disheartening to know that kind of thing is no longer being done....... and not even some variation of it........  even sadder to know that ex-baptists .. for all of their criticism of what the ifbs did wrong.... aren;t stepping up to fill in the gaps of one of the things the ifbs did right... .. and which many say is now faltering.. some even appearing to find amusement in it;s demise....  :-\......do they think it was not a worthwhile ministry?......... 

Agreed.
One of my problems with SOME of the IFB's critics is that they exhibit the same traits and attitudes in their criticism that they claim to hate in the movement they criticize.

I think that the bus ministry was, in it's day, an effective and fruitful ministry.
Today, food pantries and community outreach to poor communities is the equivalent, if done as a Biblical outreach and not a social program.
 
Tarheel Baptist said:
By politics, do you mean church politics or pure politics?


Politics in all senses.

  • The same fundamentalists who criticized and continue to criticize the SBC go to the SBC for their education.
  • The same fundamentalists who criticized and continue to criticize the new evangelicals go to the new evangelical schools for their own education.
  • The same fundamentalists who would never allow a SBC pastor to speak in their pulpits will make allowances when one of their own SBC kids becomes a SBC prof.
  • Those who readily go to MacArthur's conferences would never allow him to speak at one of their own because of "associations."

I could go on.... but this should suffice. The common denominator in IFB Separatism really is not what the other person is wearing or believes. It is based on politics.
 
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