Then the definition has changed which has been my point all along. The uncle who "groomed" my wife as a 4 year old and abused her until she was 10 is a whole different level than how you folks are using the term. In my mind the minimization is in the other direction by the elevation/equation of worldview disagreements with actively sexually assaulting a child. Worse accusing them of doing so for their own sexual gratification as the lady I referred to has done.
I "seem" to be a lot of things when folks back fill my post with their assumptions. Note the responses when I said that I voted with my nose plugged. Apparently it "seems" that even if I vote for the "correct" candidate it doesn't count because my nose was plugged. Note two, y'all has assumed my voting record without asking me for my voting record.