Bruh said:
Question for those that do not believe it is wrong to drink alcohol.
If it were not illegal for your children to drink alcohol, would you, as their parent allow them to drink it with you in moderation?
In Europe, particularly France, children routinely drink wine with meals, sometimes even in restaurants. That's because they consider it a dinner beverage, not something to drink in order to get drunk.
My parents gave me and my sister wine along with everyone else at every holiday meal, even when I was younger than a teenager (but not under 5, as far as I can remember). They also gave me a little beer (maybe an ounce or two) with meals on the advice of our family doctor, in order to increase my appetite. I don't remember how old I was, but it was pretty young.
I let my kids sample wine and beer when they were as young as 13. My 17 year old son often wants some of my wine when I buy it ("some" meaning 1/4 glass). He enjoys it.
I infrequently have wine with dinner, but when I do, my kids usually want some. I give them about 1/4-1/3 glass. They drink a little and leave the rest in the glass.
Each to his own, but in my family, I think it took the "desiring that forbidden fruit" out of the picture for my kids. They have no interest in going to some party where they can have what is forbidden at home.