Web said:i always get chappell mixed with the guy who has 4 white gramd pianos on his platform.
Chappell bought some of those overpriced pianos too. Hey, it is only money... :

Web said:i always get chappell mixed with the guy who has 4 white gramd pianos on his platform.
ItinerantPreacher said:Binaca Chugger said:ItinerantPreacher said:BC, The JV reference, OKC time, but not directly. I am a disciple of a disciple of JV, and my discipler holds JV in high regard. I was never however taught man worship, as a matter of fact the opposite. I was taught to judge everything according to the WOG in context, and to question that which I did not see in context from birth (new) till today. I encourage it as I was taught it, from the pulpit to all who listen.
Kudos to you.
Back to the subject of the thread, I would encourage people to not blindly accept what is told them. Not because I know anything that is privy only to me, but because I am familiar with the system from which LBC sprang. If you have read this far in the thread, you have some concern within you. Don't play the ostrich.
No ostrich here. If there are those who know of genuine wrong doing, (not a lack of handshake in the parking lot) then they need to step forward. I encourage then to. If it is illegal, to the police. If it is immoral but not illegal, then it needs to be confronted. Folks need to shake things up if they have knowledge.
What my caution is against is unfounded allegation. Here is a bit of why. As a pastor, I don't have to commit impropriety, I simply have to be accused of it. My good testimony will suffer nearly irreparable damage from merely the accusation.
If you know, tell. If you don't, don't assume.
AmazedbyGrace said:
I'm not sure a motive will ever be known.AmazedbyGrace said:If the motive is not officially released by a trusted source, speculation will continue. Sounds like Chappell was also speculating.
It would be good to settle this issue.
Binaca Chugger said:I am really curious about the "grief counselors" that were brought in to help the church. Are these certified counselors or the church's cronies? FBCH used to release press statements about having counselors available, but it just meant that a teen could talk to a staff member, if they dared to risk that feat.
My favorite policy was the one about "taking advantage of a rare opportunity to chew someone out, who comes to you for unrelated counselling".Binaca Chugger said:I highly doubt that LBC or PC were involved with the murder-suicide. I don't think any rational thinker could come to such a conclusion. However, many are really curious about a staff member leaving and the church being told not to contact him - about cover-up of potential indiscretions within the church that may have driven him from the church - about PC's flip-flopping.
The girlfriend's comments are extremely telling. I could see a staff member getting hooked on pain pills, frustrated with the level of junk within the church, decide to rebel against God rather than find truth, hook up with former class members, get in a drunken brawl over who knows what and .........
I am really curious about the "grief counselors" that were brought in to help the church. Are these certified counselors or the church's cronies? FBCH used to release press statements about having counselors available, but it just meant that a teen could talk to a staff member, if they dared to risk that feat.
prophet said:My favorite policy was the one about "taking advantage of a rare opportunity to chew someone out, who comes to you for unrelated counselling".Binaca Chugger said:I highly doubt that LBC or PC were involved with the murder-suicide. I don't think any rational thinker could come to such a conclusion. However, many are really curious about a staff member leaving and the church being told not to contact him - about cover-up of potential indiscretions within the church that may have driven him from the church - about PC's flip-flopping.
The girlfriend's comments are extremely telling. I could see a staff member getting hooked on pain pills, frustrated with the level of junk within the church, decide to rebel against God rather than find truth, hook up with former class members, get in a drunken brawl over who knows what and .........
I am really curious about the "grief counselors" that were brought in to help the church. Are these certified counselors or the church's cronies? FBCH used to release press statements about having counselors available, but it just meant that a teen could talk to a staff member, if they dared to risk that feat.
I had an older male student attempt to rape me, on HBHS property. I managed to get away, thank God, due to a passerby willing to investigate my calls for help, as i fought someone 120 lbs heavier than me.
I went to see Bro.Hyles, after waiting for my appointment, like he was the Pope, for weeks, til i had become bitter inside, and counselling would have fallen on deaf ears.
Finally, when i went into his office, he took the opportunity to chew me out for unrelated events, that Dr. Auclair had accused me of, to him. Seems I had walked out of the bathroom at the wrong time, as he was looking for the culprit who knocked the trophy case off of the wall. I had no idea what he was talking about, and felt like i was in a nut house, or on LSD.
I gave up on men, and religion (not God, as I told Him often through those dark times) and began the life of Solomon, trying everything under the sun, to see if there was any satisfaction therein. There wasn't, and I began to seek God, instead.
Eventually, I went to HAC, to get training to help people, as i knew, having worked for a men's program home, that i was not alone.
Imagine my thoughts the day that the "doctrine" of taking advantage of a counselling session to "chew out" an estranged teen, was taught in 'Pastoral Counselling' class.
I once again reminded myself of why i gave up hope in man, that day. I purposed to find the answers from God, and then share them with others. As God is my witness, and as bad a job as i have done at it, I have tried to do that since.
So...there is confirmation to BC's not unfounded apprehension of "grief counselling" FBCH style.
BTW, Bro.Hyles NEVER addressed the issue that I came to him over, in that session. EL only came to vist me, once, after i quit coming to church for a year or two, but never spoke to me on Sat. morning, or Sunday Eve, or at wrestling practice.
I was within sight of him 5 times a week.
Greg Webber blew me off, when i asked to tslk to him. My dad was a deacon, and felt pressure to toe some line. Eventually he started drinking, and my Mother left us. She stil claims it was about FBC's reaction to the situation.
But when we have all bought into the false doctrine, that a church has a single man who is its leader, rather than a body with one head...Jesus...we keep having the next generation pop up in the Leadership Cult.
Anishinaabe
Sounds familiar as well.Smellin Coffee said:prophet said:My favorite policy was the one about "taking advantage of a rare opportunity to chew someone out, who comes to you for unrelated counselling".Binaca Chugger said:I highly doubt that LBC or PC were involved with the murder-suicide. I don't think any rational thinker could come to such a conclusion. However, many are really curious about a staff member leaving and the church being told not to contact him - about cover-up of potential indiscretions within the church that may have driven him from the church - about PC's flip-flopping.
The girlfriend's comments are extremely telling. I could see a staff member getting hooked on pain pills, frustrated with the level of junk within the church, decide to rebel against God rather than find truth, hook up with former class members, get in a drunken brawl over who knows what and .........
I am really curious about the "grief counselors" that were brought in to help the church. Are these certified counselors or the church's cronies? FBCH used to release press statements about having counselors available, but it just meant that a teen could talk to a staff member, if they dared to risk that feat.
I had an older male student attempt to rape me, on HBHS property. I managed to get away, thank God, due to a passerby willing to investigate my calls for help, as i fought someone 120 lbs heavier than me.
I went to see Bro.Hyles, after waiting for my appointment, like he was the Pope, for weeks, til i had become bitter inside, and counselling would have fallen on deaf ears.
Finally, when i went into his office, he took the opportunity to chew me out for unrelated events, that Dr. Auclair had accused me of, to him. Seems I had walked out of the bathroom at the wrong time, as he was looking for the culprit who knocked the trophy case off of the wall. I had no idea what he was talking about, and felt like i was in a nut house, or on LSD.
I gave up on men, and religion (not God, as I told Him often through those dark times) and began the life of Solomon, trying everything under the sun, to see if there was any satisfaction therein. There wasn't, and I began to seek God, instead.
Eventually, I went to HAC, to get training to help people, as i knew, having worked for a men's program home, that i was not alone.
Imagine my thoughts the day that the "doctrine" of taking advantage of a counselling session to "chew out" an estranged teen, was taught in 'Pastoral Counselling' class.
I once again reminded myself of why i gave up hope in man, that day. I purposed to find the answers from God, and then share them with others. As God is my witness, and as bad a job as i have done at it, I have tried to do that since.
So...there is confirmation to BC's not unfounded apprehension of "grief counselling" FBCH style.
BTW, Bro.Hyles NEVER addressed the issue that I came to him over, in that session. EL only came to vist me, once, after i quit coming to church for a year or two, but never spoke to me on Sat. morning, or Sunday Eve, or at wrestling practice.
I was within sight of him 5 times a week.
Greg Webber blew me off, when i asked to tslk to him. My dad was a deacon, and felt pressure to toe some line. Eventually he started drinking, and my Mother left us. She stil claims it was about FBC's reaction to the situation.
But when we have all bought into the false doctrine, that a church has a single man who is its leader, rather than a body with one head...Jesus...we keep having the next generation pop up in the Leadership Cult.
Anishinaabe
prophet, I remember the incident that happened to you but not how you were treated afterward. I was working in the youth department at the time (driving for TSW, chaperoning youth activities, etc.) but I don't think I ever came to you in an effort to help. For that, I am terribly sorry that I failed to do so. Though we disagree about some things doctrinally, I'm thankful that God brought you through all this and you have sought Him.
You were not alone.
The parents of one of my best friends in middle/high school had a baby girl. During the Sunday School hour one Sunday, a nursery worker dropped the newborn and the baby died. The parents were NOT notified of anything that was wrong until toward the end of the church service (second service) where they were told they needed to go to the nursery. They got there and found out their daughter had been rushed to the hospital. When they arrived, they found out she was in the morgue. Nobody at the church had the decency to notify them WHEN the accident happened. My friend became bitter, not at the accident but at the response and is now a professing atheist.
The last part of the story took place several years later in Church Ed. Ray Young recounted the tragic story about the death of the baby girl and said admitted that the parents were notified a couple hours after the accident. He then went on to say in class that it was done so as not to "prohibit God moving" in the service (or words to that effect). He said that the baby was dead and the grief of the parents and friends should take second step behind the preaching.
rsc2a said:[quote author=Smellin Coffee]The last part of the story took place several years later in Church Ed. Ray Young recounted the tragic story about the death of the baby girl and said admitted that the parents were notified a couple hours after the accident. He then went on to say in class that it was done so as not to "prohibit God moving" in the service (or words to that effect). He said that the baby was dead and the grief of the parents and friends should take second step behind the preaching.
Smellin Coffee said:rsc2a said:[quote author=Smellin Coffee]The last part of the story took place several years later in Church Ed. Ray Young recounted the tragic story about the death of the baby girl and said admitted that the parents were notified a couple hours after the accident. He then went on to say in class that it was done so as not to "prohibit God moving" in the service (or words to that effect). He said that the baby was dead and the grief of the parents and friends should take second step behind the preaching.
And people go to this place for theological training?![]()
Standard? According to whom?This is pretty much standard in most fundamental Baptist churches. There is never a good time to talk about what went wrong in a church.
This is pretty much standard in most fundamental Baptist churches.
ItinerantPreacher said:I have posted a few times in this thread advocating for truth, and I want to add something.
AmazedByGrace posted a link to an article on a blog called Bible Madness. http://biblemadness.com/who-is-behind-this-madness/
This is the individual behind Bible Madness. I have no idea who the guy is, but here me out for a second. According to his blog, he attended a Christian School (doesn't say that he attended Trinity Baptist Church, just the school. He could have left that out but if he wanted to discredit something, the more credibility he has the better for him) Then he went to BJU for three weeks. That is according to him the totality of his "IFB/Fundamentalist/Baptist/Methodist training Baptist" experience.
Then he writes this statementStandard? According to whom?This is pretty much standard in most fundamental Baptist churches. There is never a good time to talk about what went wrong in a church.
I can't seem to come up with the statistic any more, but I remember reading that in America there are some 15,000 or so IB churches. Now, because of the independent nature of these congregations, it is hard to get a verifiable count. Suffice it to say, thats a lot of congregations. A lot more than Dwayne Walker of Bible Madness purports to have visited or attended. Yet, he says,This is pretty much standard in most fundamental Baptist churches.
Jeri of Lily pad fame lists about 80 or so pastors on her list of abusive pastors. 80/15000 = 0.5% or 1/2 of 1 percent. When you read here, there is a recurrent theme. FBCH, LBC, WHBC, and a few others. Thats maybe 10/15000. 6/100 of 1 percent or 0.0006.
My point is that it is a giant leap to tar and feather IB churches based on the actions of a few. I am not devaluing the trouble anyone has had in a church anywhere, simply advocating fairness and equity and reality in viewing any issue. While some may comment out of a sense of hurt and or passion, there sense of outrage does not make something any more or less true.
When statements use inflammatory language like that they lose all credibility with me. Politicians use language like that all the time. I believe it is especially true that God's people ought not. (I know enough to know that not all here are a child of God. If you are, exaggeration is a sin. 1John 1:9 If you are not, exaggeration is a sin. Romans 3:23)
rsc2a said:[quote author=ItinerantPreacher]My point is that it is a giant leap to tar and feather IB churches based on the actions of a few. I am not devaluing the trouble anyone has had in a church anywhere, simply advocating fairness and equity and reality in viewing any issue. While some may comment out of a sense of hurt and or passion, there sense of outrage does not make something any more or less true.
ItinerantPreacher said:I use the same line of thought with the house church movement, those who believe that the issue with Churches is their institutional nature. In other words, according to them, if we went back to the Biblical model of meeting in a house, our problems would be solved. But there were problems in the NT churches in the Bible, which they say were "house churches", so that theory fails.