Racial Dating Policies at Bible Colleges

[prophet]

Most not all of you know, if your daughter brought home a big black man dark as the Ace of Spades you would do a big "GULP".

So, stop being dishonest with the good people of the FFF.

Here's one vote for the minority opinion.

Of course, you exposed the whole problem, when you, a Southern White Man pointed out Black as the problem.

 

[Bruh]

Most not all of you know, if your daughter brought home a big black man dark as the Ace of Spades you would do a big "GULP".

So, stop being dishonest with the good people of the FFF.

Here's one vote for the minority opinion.

Of course, you exposed the whole problem, when you, a Southern White Man pointed out Black as the problem.

Because, deep down that is what everyone is referring to, without saying it.

Not all, but yes, most. 

 

[Bruh]

Bruh - you know if your daughter brought a Nazi skinhead white supremacist home, you'd prefer that to the black middle-class engineering major.

Killing myself laughing!! you are funny.  LOL!  Good one.

Why? Because you would prefer the Nazi or because you think the idea of a black guy being either middle class or an engineering major is so strange?

Because he thinks they are all big ol' buck Negros, blacker than the ace of spades.

Bam, you nailed it. 

 

[Bruh]

Most not all of you know, if your daughter brought home a big black man dark as the Ace of Spades you would do a big "GULP".

And why would that be?

Because, IMO, that is reality. 

Not all but most, I really believe parents would rather their daughter bring home a man of the same race.  They will not admit it on the FFF but that is the truth.  Meanwhile I am accused of being a racist, which really is funny, to me.  I'm being accused of being a racist because, I am saying most are a little racist and really racist if their child brings home a black person. 

Most not all on here try and act like they have these type "issues" in check. 

Just like the gay debate......really it is a sin just like gluttony
yeah ok keep telling yourself that, until your daughter brings home a woman......no you will not treat it the same as when she use to over eat as a child.  Be real!!

I'm not saying you, Ransom are this way, but what I am saying is, there are a lot on here that are not being honest. 

 

[Ransom]

I'm not saying you, Ransom are this way, but what I am saying is, there are a lot on here that are not being honest.

Well, speaking of not being honest, you didn't answer my question. You only restated your assertion.

 

[Bruh]

I'm not saying you, Ransom are this way, but what I am saying is, there are a lot on here that are not being honest.

Well, speaking of not being honest, you didn't answer my question. You only restated your assertion.

Because of human nature I guess.

 

[Ransom]

Because of human nature I guess.

Good grief, what a weasel. If you mean that the majority of FFFers are racists, just own it and say so.

 

[Citadel of Truth]

If you join the Marines at 18 you are a mature adult and can date anyone you want without your parent's permission.

If you go to Bible College at 18 you are no where near an adult, immature and must have mommy and daddy approve of your dating choice.

My take on the issue is that it has nothing to do with maturity, but everything to do with accountability. If a child is raised to seek his/her parent's counsel in the area of dating, regardless if they're in the Marines or in Bible college, they're going to seek that counsel.

My daughters wouldn't dream of buying a car without asking for my advice. The car will last 10 years or so. Why wouldn't I want to help them make a decision that will last the rest of their life?

Pick a mate for them? Absolutely not. But, I hope that I have painted a clear picture for them since they were little girls of what kind of man they should marry so that when he does show up, they'll recognize him immediately.   

 

[rsc2a]

[quote author=Citadel of Truth]My daughters wouldn't dream of buying a car without asking for my advice. The car will last 10 years or so. Why wouldn't I want to help them make a decision that will last the rest of their life? [/quote]

Great. You've created codependent lifelong children who will never become independent adults. Hopefully they don't forget to ask your permission before they and their husbands decide to start having their own codependent children.

 

[AmazedbyGrace]

Most not all of you know, if your daughter brought home a big black man dark as the Ace of Spades you would do a big "GULP".

So, stop being dishonest with the good people of the FFF.

Not so!

Glad I am not training my kids to be racist.

 

[Tarheel Baptist]

I thank God I'M not like other men.
Amen!

 

[Bruh]

Because of human nature I guess.

Good grief, what a weasel. If you mean that the majority of FFFers are racists, just own it and say so.

I already said they were.  But will not show their true feelings on the FFF. 

A lot on here on trying to hide behind mercy and grace, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah...........whatever!!!

Their son or daughter brings a black person home, we will never hear of it on here.  LOL!!

 

[Bruh]

Or we may, so then they can say, see.

 

[Citadel of Truth]

Great. You've created codependent lifelong children who will never become independent adults.

If you equate seeking counsel as codependency, then I feel very sorry for you and anyone whom you have ever influenced.

Proverbs 11:14 Where there is no counsel, the people fall; But in the multitude of counselors there is safety.

12:15 The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, But he who heeds counsel is wise.

5:22 Without counsel, plans go awry, But in the multitude of counselors they are established.

19:20 Listen to counsel and receive instruction, That you may be wise in your latter days.

20:18 Plans are established by counsel; By wise counsel wage war.

24:6 For by wise counsel you will wage your own war, And in a multitude of counselors there is safety.

 

[rsc2a]

Bruh - Since we're all a bunch of racists, make sure you invite us to your next Klan rally.

 

[rsc2a]

Great. You've created codependent lifelong children who will never become independent adults.

If you equate seeking counsel as codependency, then I feel very sorry for you and anyone whom you have ever influenced.

Proverbs 11:14 Where there is no counsel, the people fall; But in the multitude of counselors there is safety.

12:15 The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, But he who heeds counsel is wise.

5:22 Without counsel, plans go awry, But in the multitude of counselors they are established.

19:20 Listen to counsel and receive instruction, That you may be wise in your latter days.

20:18 Plans are established by counsel; By wise counsel wage war.

24:6 For by wise counsel you will wage your own war, And in a multitude of counselors there is safety.

"Daddy, we need to talk to you and Pastor. Hubby and I want to have kids and we need to ask permission."

 

[Bruh]

Bruh - Since we're all a bunch of racists, make sure you invite us to your next Klan rally.

You better stop or you will have me peeing on myself from laughter.  LOL for real!!

2a, chill out.  You are funny!! 

And I don't think all of you are racist.  I'm just saying that on here you'd say I have no issues with race but in reality not true.  Is all I am saying. 

 

[Citadel of Truth]

Great. You've created codependent lifelong children who will never become independent adults.

If you equate seeking counsel as codependency, then I feel very sorry for you and anyone whom you have ever influenced.

Proverbs 11:14 Where there is no counsel, the people fall; But in the multitude of counselors there is safety.

12:15 The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, But he who heeds counsel is wise.

5:22 Without counsel, plans go awry, But in the multitude of counselors they are established.

19:20 Listen to counsel and receive instruction, That you may be wise in your latter days.

20:18 Plans are established by counsel; By wise counsel wage war.

24:6 For by wise counsel you will wage your own war, And in a multitude of counselors there is safety.

"Daddy, we need to talk to you and Pastor. Hubby and I want to have kids and we need to ask permission."

Your problem is not with me, Rodent; your problem is with the Word of God. You have my pity. Thank God I taught my girls well enough that they won't end up with someone....never mind. 

 

[Ransom]

And I don't think all of you are racist.

No, just most of us.

Would you mind naming the racists? I need to know whom I can hang out with, without becoming some sort of Communist or race traitor.

 

[rsc2a]

Great. You've created codependent lifelong children who will never become independent adults.

If you equate seeking counsel as codependency, then I feel very sorry for you and anyone whom you have ever influenced.

Proverbs 11:14 Where there is no counsel, the people fall; But in the multitude of counselors there is safety.

12:15 The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, But he who heeds counsel is wise.

5:22 Without counsel, plans go awry, But in the multitude of counselors they are established.

19:20 Listen to counsel and receive instruction, That you may be wise in your latter days.

20:18 Plans are established by counsel; By wise counsel wage war.

24:6 For by wise counsel you will wage your own war, And in a multitude of counselors there is safety.

"Daddy, we need to talk to you and Pastor. Hubby and I want to have kids and we need to ask permission."

Your problem is not with me, Rodent; your problem is with the Word of God. You have my pity. Thank God I taught my girls well enough that they won't end up with someone....never mind. 

I'm all for counsel, seeking advice and everything else. That's world's different from "My daughters would never dream of buying a car without asking my advice." Granted...the immaturity that fundamentalists seem to force on their offspring was a major point of this thread.