Racial Dating Policies at Bible Colleges

[Bruh]

And I don't think all of you are racist.

No, just most of us.

Would you mind naming the racists? I need to know whom I can hang out with, without becoming some sort of Communist or race traitor.

Ransom you and 2a need to stop. Y'all have me bursting out with laughter and people in this office are beginning to look this way. 

Now, you want me to call the racist out.  Well............... 

 

[Bruh]

Great. You've created codependent lifelong children who will never become independent adults.

If you equate seeking counsel as codependency, then I feel very sorry for you and anyone whom you have ever influenced.

Proverbs 11:14 Where there is no counsel, the people fall; But in the multitude of counselors there is safety.

12:15 The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, But he who heeds counsel is wise.

5:22 Without counsel, plans go awry, But in the multitude of counselors they are established.

19:20 Listen to counsel and receive instruction, That you may be wise in your latter days.

20:18 Plans are established by counsel; By wise counsel wage war.

24:6 For by wise counsel you will wage your own war, And in a multitude of counselors there is safety.

"Daddy, we need to talk to you and Pastor. Hubby and I want to have kids and we need to ask permission."

Your problem is not with me, Rodent; your problem is with the Word of God. You have my pity. Thank God I taught my girls well enough that they won't end up with someone....never mind. 

I'm all for counsel, seeking advice and everything else. That's world's different from "My daughters would never dream of buying a car without asking my advice." Granted...the immaturity that fundamentalists seem to force on their offspring was a major point of this thread.

Not all IB 2a, not all.

 

[AmazedbyGrace]

I thank God I'M not like other men.
Amen!

You seem quite comfortable with the racism.

 

[subllibrm]

If you join the Marines at 18 you are a mature adult and can date anyone you want without your parent's permission.

If you go to Bible College at 18 you are no where near an adult, immature and must have mommy and daddy approve of your dating choice.

My take on the issue is that it has nothing to do with maturity, but everything to do with accountability. If a child is raised to seek his/her parent's counsel in the area of dating, regardless if they're in the Marines or in Bible college, they're going to seek that counsel.

My daughters wouldn't dream of buying a car without asking for my advice. The car will last 10 years or so. Why wouldn't I want to help them make a decision that will last the rest of their life?

Pick a mate for them? Absolutely not. But, I hope that I have painted a clear picture for them since they were little girls of what kind of man they should marry so that when he does show up, they'll recognize him immediately. 

Do they get to decide the color of the car?  ???

 

[Ransom]

Now, you want me to call the racist out.  Well...............

Since you claimed the majority here were racist, it should be easy. I'll make it even easier. Just name the ones participating on this thread.

 

[subllibrm]

Now, you want me to call the racist out.  Well...............

Since you claimed the majority here were racist, it should be easy. I'll make it even easier. Just name the ones participating on this thread.

Me, me ... ooh pick me!

 

[subllibrm]

My take on the issue is that it has nothing to do with maturity, but everything to do with accountability. If a child is raised to seek his/her parent's counsel in the area of dating, regardless if they're in the Marines or in Bible college, they're going to seek that counsel.

Does it bother you that this school will support (require) that interaction between you and your child if she wants to date a black man but your input isn't even on their radar if she likes a white boy?

 

[Bruh]

Now, you want me to call the racist out.  Well...............

Since you claimed the majority here were racist, it should be easy. I'll make it even easier. Just name the ones participating on this thread.

O.k I don't know who the racist are, specifically.  What I am saying is that, I would assume, not all are being honest about their daughter bringing home a black man.  That's it. 

 

[subllibrm]

Now, you want me to call the racist out.  Well...............

Since you claimed the majority here were racist, it should be easy. I'll make it even easier. Just name the ones participating on this thread.

O.k I don't know who the racist are, specifically.  What I am saying is that, I would assume, not all are being honest about their daughter bringing home a black man.  That's it.

speshully if he be one big ol' black buck!

 

[Ransom]

O.k I don't know who the racist are, specifically.  What I am saying is that, I would assume, not all are being honest about their daughter bringing home a black man.  That's it. 

So, basically, you're saying you're the bigot.

 

[Bruh]

O.k I don't know who the racist are, specifically.  What I am saying is that, I would assume, not all are being honest about their daughter bringing home a black man.  That's it. 

So, basically, you're saying you're the bigot.

LOL!!!  I guess, if that's what you think I'm saying.

 

[Citadel of Truth]

Do they get to decide the color of the car?  ???

They get to decide what color, what make, what model, what year, what extras. They only ask for my input because I know cars and they don't want to buy a lemon.

Having been a man now for several decades, I know a little bit about the male species. My daughters only ask for my input because they don't want to marry a loser.

None of my daughters are married yet although the two oldest are both dating fine young men.

If the way I raised my girls puts a burr under your saddle, then don't do it like I did...that's not going to bother me any. 

 

[rsc2a]

Now, you want me to call the racist out.  Well...............

Since you claimed the majority here were racist, it should be easy. I'll make it even easier. Just name the ones participating on this thread.

O.k I don't know who the racist are, specifically.  What I am saying is that, I would assume, not all are being honest about their daughter bringing home a black man.  That's it.

speshully if he be one big ol' black buck!

Well, he sure couldn't be middle classed or college educated, being black and all.

 

[Bruh]

Now, you want me to call the racist out.  Well...............

Since you claimed the majority here were racist, it should be easy. I'll make it even easier. Just name the ones participating on this thread.

O.k I don't know who the racist are, specifically.  What I am saying is that, I would assume, not all are being honest about their daughter bringing home a black man.  That's it.

speshully if he be one big ol' black buck!

Exactly!! now you are getting it. 

 

[Citadel of Truth]

My take on the issue is that it has nothing to do with maturity, but everything to do with accountability. If a child is raised to seek his/her parent's counsel in the area of dating, regardless if they're in the Marines or in Bible college, they're going to seek that counsel.

Does it bother you that this school will support (require) that interaction between you and your child if she wants to date a black man but your input isn't even on their radar if she likes a white boy?

It is a double standard, IMHO.

 

[Bruh]

Now, you want me to call the racist out.  Well...............

Since you claimed the majority here were racist, it should be easy. I'll make it even easier. Just name the ones participating on this thread.

O.k I don't know who the racist are, specifically.  What I am saying is that, I would assume, not all are being honest about their daughter bringing home a black man.  That's it.

speshully if he be one big ol' black buck!

Well, he sure couldn't be middle classed or college educated, being black and all.

That's racist, why would you say something like that?  smh

 

[Citadel of Truth]

I'm all for counsel, seeking advice and everything else. That's world's different from "My daughters would never dream of buying a car without asking my advice." Granted...the immaturity that fundamentalists seem to force on their offspring was a major point of this thread.

Even though you quoted me correctly, in your closed mind all you read was, "My daughters would never dream of buying a car without asking my permission."

Seeking advice is not immaturity; it is the exact opposite - very mature. 

 

[Bruh]

I'm all for counsel, seeking advice and everything else. That's world's different from "My daughters would never dream of buying a car without asking my advice." Granted...the immaturity that fundamentalists seem to force on their offspring was a major point of this thread.

Even though you quoted me correctly, in your closed mind all you read was, "My daughters would never dream of buying a car without asking my permission."

Seeking advice is not immaturity; it is the exact opposite - very mature.

^^^ This.^^^

 

[Tarheel Baptist]

I thank God I'M not like other men.
Amen!

You seem quite comfortable with the racism.

You seem quite comfortable judging.
You can take the girl from among the fundy's...but
I guess you can't take the fundy out of the girl.

 

[Bruh]

I thank God I'M not like other men.
Amen!

You seem quite comfortable with the racism.

You seem quite comfortable judging.
You can take the girl from among the fundy's...but
I guess you can't take the fundy out of the girl.

Y'all need to kiss and make up.